contel3 Posted December 9, 2015 Posted December 9, 2015 When someone tells you they're uncomfortable with lots of pda do you take it as a sign they're not that much into you? Or do you think its more about personality and personal preferences?
Buddhist Posted December 9, 2015 Posted December 9, 2015 preferences mostly as long as they're into it in private. I'm an exhibitionist, don't mind a bit of touchy feeley in public at all. 1
lollipopspot Posted December 9, 2015 Posted December 9, 2015 lots of pda I would say that's personal preference. It might be about not wanting to make other people who witness it uncomfortable. I have to say, I'm not really comfortable by watching people go at it in public either, so I wouldn't want to subject someone else to that. It doesn't have anything to do with how I feel about my partner. 1
Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 I would say that's personal preference. It might be about not wanting to make other people who witness it uncomfortable. I have to say, I'm not really comfortable by watching people go at it in public either, so I wouldn't want to subject someone else to that. It doesn't have anything to do with how I feel about my partner. Yeah same. I'm not use to getting lots of PDA myself. I prefer affection to be displayed in private not in public. It makes other people feel uncomfortable.
Snakechammah Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 Simple gestures like handholding or an arm around your shoulders, or a gentle touch on the arm in public, are fine. But slobbering kisses and butt gropes in public are a HUGE NO-NO! It's all about your reputation as a woman. You don't want Old Aunt Gelda to walk by and have a heart attack seeing that! 4
Glitters Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 Simple gestures like handholding or an arm around your shoulders, or a gentle touch on the arm in public, are fine. But slobbering kisses and butt gropes in public are a HUGE NO-NO! It's all about your reputation as a woman. You don't want Old Aunt Gelda to walk by and have a heart attack seeing that! LMAO ! It's a personal preference
ManyDissapoint Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 I'm really big on physical affection and PDA but I keep it to maybe a light kiss, caress, stroke on the shoulder / neck, squeeze on the leg. Are there women who are uncomfortable with that level of PDA? 1
LilaMarie Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 There was a guy that would stick his hand under my dress (that I was dating of course). I told him repeatedly to stop, well he didn't and I was so embarrassed since we were at a grocery store. I grabbed his hand and I gave it the hardest slap. That put a stop to it
Michelle ma Belle Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 Yep personal preference. I'm Italian/French and PDA is in my blood. I don't do well with men who aren't comfortable with public displays of affection.
jen1447 Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 But slobbering kisses and butt gropes in public are a HUGE NO-NO! It's all about your reputation as a woman. You don't want Old Aunt Gelda to walk by and have a heart attack seeing that! Why not? 1
RecentChange Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 I have no problems with PDA, kinda enjoy it actually, most of the guys I have dated have been a bit more "shy" - I think it's totally a personality thing rather then an into thing... I enjoy the anonymity of living a city, dear ol' Gertrude won't be the wiser.
salparadise Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 A couple of nights ago I went out with one of buddies (an older gent) from my volunteer gig to have a sandwich and a beer at a local place. I texted my gf that I would be doing that (so she wouldn't wonder why I wasn't texting). She said she was tempted to put on her sexy undies, occupy a table across the way and show a little garter and make it kinda obvious that she was trying to get my attention... which of course runs completely counter to her ladylike public persona. Said it makes her hot to think about. I think she's breaking out- I think we need to go to a nice place with tablecloths and push some boundaries and provide cardiac exercises for whomever might be observant enough to figure it out! 1
jen1447 Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 I think we need to go to a nice place with tablecloths and push some boundaries and provide cardiac exercises for whomever might be observant enough to figure it out! Every woman should experience an orgasm in a public place at least once in her life. 2
d0nnivain Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 Personal choice unless there is a reason for them to be telling you to tone it down.
pteromom Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 I'm really big on physical affection and PDA but I keep it to maybe a light kiss, caress, stroke on the shoulder / neck, squeeze on the leg. Are there women who are uncomfortable with that level of PDA? Yes. I am good with holding hands, but kissing and squeezing in public? Nope.
pteromom Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 Every woman should experience an orgasm in a public place at least once in her life. Yes, but in a private spot in a public place. Being actually seen by people = NO Feeling that "we might get caught" thrill - yes. 1
jen1447 Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 Being actually seen by people = NO Depends on the situation. 2
No_Go Posted December 11, 2015 Posted December 11, 2015 Depends on the environment. I'm personally totally fine with some PDA on a neutral territory, it can be hot. BUT at work, family events etc - huge no no. I'm also personally not thrilled about couples "cute" pictures (kissing etc) on FB and related. When someone tells you they're uncomfortable with lots of pda do you take it as a sign they're not that much into you? Or do you think its more about personality and personal preferences? 1
losangelena Posted December 11, 2015 Posted December 11, 2015 My ex and I were prone to giving each other a** slaps out in public, but I've also made out on top of parked cars before, so PDA is no big deal for me. As a single lady I tend to roll my eyes at others doing it, so when I am in a relationship, it's kind of fun to be on the other side. But yeah, OP I think it's a matter of preference.
thecrucible Posted December 11, 2015 Posted December 11, 2015 I like it within limits. I wouldn't want to do pda in front of friends and family. That's a complete no-no. Also definitely no ott stuff on social media either. To answer the question, it all comes down to personal preference.
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