Drops-of-Jupiter Posted December 9, 2015 Posted December 9, 2015 Hey everyone, I just wanted to post a little positive update. First off, I'd just like to say thank you to everyone on this site who took the time to give me some amazing advice when I hit an all time low. Its been nearly 3 weeks since my long term girlfriend broke up with me out of the blue. And yes its been a very tough three weeks but you just need to keep thinking that everything will get better! I of course wake up somedays feeling unhappy still but just let the grieving process run its course. Everything happens for a reason and maybe you won't understand that reason right away but just take a step back and calm down. Times like these also just go to show who your real friends and how kind others are! Don't be afraid to talk about your feelings and let people know you're upset. I may have lost my girlfriend but I've never felt closer to my family and friends. Just take time to focus on yourself. Being single again has been difficult to adapt to but its not the end of the world! Hit the gym, treat yourself to a nice meal, go for some drinks with friends! Just be kind to yourself and stop beating yourself up about what happened. I really struggled with feeling like the relationship ending was all my fault but always remember that a true relationship is a two way street and if they weren't willing to make it work either then it wasn't to be. I just want people reading this post to know that I completely understand how you all feel but I promise you things will get better. Keep your head held high and pride in your heart. We'll all meet that special person eventually. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery but today is a gift, thats why they call it the present! So seize the day everyone! I wish each and everyone of you the best in life. 5
LostInNC Posted December 9, 2015 Posted December 9, 2015 "I really struggled with feeling like the relationship ending was all my fault but always remember that a true relationship is a two way street and if they weren't willing to make it work either then it wasn't to be." That pretty much sums up everything I have been coming to terms with this last week. You seem to be moving along. It is great to hear of someone who is doing a little better take care!
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