Zippy2000 Posted December 15, 2015 Posted December 15, 2015 Its hard to say when you say "top heavy". Its a very subjective view. For me the person I like has to be attractive and in their body size in propotion. Some me will like you for your boobs and some may not. To ask a question like that really depends on the person and what they find/perceive to be attractive.
Sunlight72 Posted December 15, 2015 Posted December 15, 2015 I have a butt when I'm heavier it's not really that it's more shape I guess because my hips are small and my shoulders are bigger I've been compared to like trannies for it sometimes.... Well, the bad news is, plenty of people are shallow morons. Good news is - they often make it easy for you to know who they are, and you can quickly list them in the 'ignore the B.S. that will be coming from here' column. I'm happy to be dating a woman who is a very athletic build, sounds similar to your body type, except my girlfriend has A cup breasts. Apparently a couple guys have told her they didn't ask her out because they thought she's a lesbian since she has broad shoulders (ha!). She's very hot. I can't get enough of her! I am super lucky that she was single when I was looking She is 5' 8", I'm 6' 3", and she says she hasn't dated anyone as tall as me, and that she .likes. how tall I am! I'm 44 - this is the first time I've had a relationship with a woman who didn't say I am too tall. There have been many good features in my other relationships, but I will say it is nice to have found someone who actually likes me the size I am, so I do understand what you're feeling. Don't sweat it though. You probably don't feel young, but you are really young. When we're young most of us feel inadequate in some way(s). I certainly did. I always felt too tall. What turns out to be more attractive (for relationship minded men and women) is personality, how you carry yourself and how your treat them. I know that sentence looks like a blur to you, as it would have to my younger self, but if you can absorb that truth you will save yourself some years of doubt and heartache. You don't want all guys to like you (really). You want the few good men that your interests and personality are romantically compatible with to be intrigued by you just enough to spend 5 minutes enjoying your sparkling wit and playful attitude. Once they're close, they'll stick around and you're off to the races 1
wb1988 Posted December 15, 2015 Posted December 15, 2015 Top heavy is much better than bottom heavy for most guys, but I've noticed that black guys actually prefer bottom heavy — like every time we go bar hopping my black friends always check out the 'bottom-heavy' type that I personally find gross . If you're sure that it's your genetics then the best thing you can do is be as fit as you can and accept it. Remember that even the more attractive girls in the world still feel like they have to tinker with themselves so there really is no point on dwelling on what you can never have.
deep_night Posted December 15, 2015 Posted December 15, 2015 no one's perfect. we're not supposed to be. but you sound to me just like fine. i wish i had bigger shoulders so shirts would fit me nicer. im the opposite. bottom heavy. and very self conscious about the shape of my body. i think it looks a bit funny. small breasts, big thighs, short legs. doesnt matter how thin or overweight i am, i always look like this. but there were people who actually liked the way i look, and especially the very features i dislike :s of course there were others as well, who were insensitive, but these are the people you dont want to be around. the world is full of imperfections. it takes a while to get this into your head, it's not easy, im also trying. some days i feel totally great and some others my self esteem is quite bad. but after all we're women, a quality man will feel it's an honour that he gets to see our body.
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