Vero Posted December 9, 2015 Posted December 9, 2015 Im a high school senior and there's a girl in my economics class that I've taken a liking to. That's great and all, but I can never seem to push myself to ask her out somewhere outside the classrom, or even school in general. I talk to her a bit during class and walk with her after class, and i really want to have an outing with here, but I constantly tell myself "this is unnatural; she probably will think your desperate; if she says 'No', it wil be so awkward the next day", and I don't do it. I'm a complete numbnut when it comes to dating, help? Thanks!
bluefeather Posted December 9, 2015 Posted December 9, 2015 Find out what she likes to do and do it with her. If you're afraid of awkwardness, here's what you gotta do. Act like everything is completely casual. The worst case scenario you are thinking is probably... "hey would you wanna go out with me to (insert whatever place)?" She says, "err.. no. sorry." And after that it's like oh crap super awkward... Nope. If you are afraid of awkwardness, you gotta destroy that by going in with this mindset: It's all casual. Go in with what kind of stuff do you like to do questions. Find out if she likes to go to the movies or something. When she says yes, ask her "Cool, would you like to go out with me some time? Maybe this weekend?" From there she will say either yes (cool!) or no (ah well...). See, if she says no, you don't go into "oh crap I'm sorry man this is so awkward now!" ... just be like "ahh ok, that's cool!" then act like it was no big deal at all. because you know what.. it isn't. It's all good man. you just wanna know if she wants to hang out with you. it's not like you're asking to be her boyfriend or anything. Know what I'm saying?
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