Hot_Box_Johnson Posted December 9, 2015 Posted December 9, 2015 We gotten together when we first met at cross country season, after getting with her I soon realized she the exact type of person I wanted. We were together six months, and the amount of affection and commitment I had to her was very deep. She left though while she was 14 years old, she would like old pictures, talk to me every day afterwards to test me, anything. Then she started dating someone else who cheated on her constantly because of low self-esteem issues (Which she has as well). She messaged me a couple times to see how I was. Then after they broke up permanently she messaged me two days later, at first it was rocky, but once she saw me in person and realized how I was no longer a needy person, she instantly fell for me. Making promise after promise, bringing up things I would have thought she forgotten. Even referring to me how things the other guy done reminded her of me. Then on Friday she messaged me on an app and I legitimately did not get the message until later that day ( I opened it at 8:00 pm, she messaged me at 7:57 am). She had went to the basketball game she wasnt sure if she was going to, she said she "would have loved it if I had went" O texted her for a little while but since it was getting late I went to bed. All day the next day she did not message me, I had to message first (something I had not really been doing) She went out with a friend, a guy (I never asked she told me all this after I had not been asking at all), the thing is she said he was her bestfriend. She does not have a guy bestfriend, I have never heard of him, so she would not consider a guy her bestfriend after only a day of hanging out with him, she said the got a bestfriend bracelet for each and after talking to my bestfriend who said that was odd she hasnt texted me all day and that she was hanging with a "bestfriend" I have never heard of before that something was off. I asked if she was speaking to someone else, she said just as friends, then I asked what we were, (keep in mind, we have had very intimate and intellectual conversations and she went from calling me baby to questioning me when I called her baby that night, we had been talking for a month) then she tried to throw on me that I say we could not speak if she was not talking to me with hopes of getting together. She said "I know" I have not said anything else because there was nothing I could say. She is 15 now, and I honestly love this girl still. Is her doing this because she is young, or because something else is amiss? Please answer soon.
Gloria25 Posted December 9, 2015 Posted December 9, 2015 Yes, she probably is exhibiting this rash, irrational, impulsive behavior because she is 15...and guess what? Real maturity in a young woman doesn't begin until like mid 20's. Just curious. How old are you? What do you know about love? Cuz IMO, "love" is "awe, respect, admiration"...and I don't see that in this "girl" - regardless of her age.
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