stemac Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 Helol all hope someone can advise me My ex left me about a month and a half ago, I went NC almost right away, The other day I posted a link to a girl I've become friends with on facebook and on the Link I added her to it and said if they ever reform I would take her to see them and put 2 kisses Then today I get a alert my ex shared the link, she not even on my FB I deleted her And there's no reason what so ever for her to share my link, it upset me alot as I've Not had anything to do with her since she dumped me, did she do it to hurt me bring it all back to me ? Or was it jealousy ? I didn't expect it so it's upset me alot
Michelle ma Belle Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 Who cares? It was a link that she shared. She didn't leave you some nasty message or message the girl you tagged did she? Clearly she's stalking your profile but who knows what her reasons are. Whatever it is, it's very passive aggressive of her. If you don't want her to repeat this again perhaps you need to set your FB profile on privacy. Clearly it's not if she's able to see and share you posts. Deleting her isn't enough. Good luck.
Chronotrgr Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 Oh my God she did what!?, she shared your video?, what a horrible woman.... Nah I'm kidding, don't take it too seriously, I've had one or two exes like my posts when I weren't there friends on Facebook back when I had it, thinking too much in to stuff like that isn't an irrational mindset you want to get in to. 2
Meli22 Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 It means nothing. I sometimes share videos on Facebook that other people share too, it doesn't mean I'm doing it to get their attention. I share it because it's funny and/or involves something interesting (like food, basically). The thing is.. We all look into stuff like this way too much after a break up. I've done it myself, just about everyone has. And this is why strict NC helps. It stops the mind wondering. If you were in strict NC you wouldn't have seen that post, and you wouldn't have started this thread, and you wouldn't be wondering whether or not it was anything to do with you or not. I say it all the time... Unless the ex says straight out I WANT YOU BACK, ignore any other petty smoke signal.
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