Emmarose1396 Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 Max & I have been friends for 8 yrs we never expressed attraction towards each other I was dating someone &as the relationship was ending (which Max knew) I noticed Max being VERY flirty w/ me like never before. This sparked something in me- I developed a crush on him. One night prior to the end of my relationship Max told me how he had feelings. He knew it may complicate things but we are always honest &he wanted me to know& he kissed me My relationship ended (not due to him) - &Max & I talked about the 2 of us &our potential. He expressed concerns b/c he said he didnt want to be the rebound & he still needs to sort out his feelings b/c he was confused why it took 8 yrs for him to see that he was interested. I told him I agreed & we should take it is slow. I didn say he couldnt talk to other people& I didnt want to put him on hold since I just got out of a relationship Last week the 2 of us were hanging out &he pulled me close to him &held me & told me how he liked being close to me & how I fit w/him. He told me he was approached by a girl he had went out w/a few months ago & she wanted to give it another go - he asked me if I thought this a betrayal to me. I said no - he needs to be happy & if it is me great - but he needs to make sure. He told me he didnt think it would work out w/her b/c he wasnt comfortable w/her, conversation isnt great w/her like it is w/me&he wanted someone who he could be friends w/ Last night myself Max &a group of people (including the girl he is talking 2) were all hanging out - he kept staring @me. After she left he kept grabbing my hand & holding it or trying to put his arms around me - we were drinking so i figured it was that. My issue is: I will text him & he wont always get back to me - or it will take ALOT of time. Honestly I know i need to take more time but I really like Max I cant stop thinking about him & wanting to be w/him. does it seem like he is genuinely interested? or is this something I need to step back from?
truth_seeker Posted December 9, 2015 Posted December 9, 2015 Sounds like the more he ignores you, the more you're into him. What happens if he starts paying a lot of attention to you? Will you lose interest? He might be playing a game... he might have a little bit of interest... only he knows. Good thing is: you can ask him to find out
Scarlett.O'hara Posted December 9, 2015 Posted December 9, 2015 You want to be together so tell him how you feel. It isn't fair that he is stringing some poor girl along while he waits for you to make up your mind. 1
Michelle ma Belle Posted December 9, 2015 Posted December 9, 2015 I don't get why he had to date this other girl when it was clear you're both into each other. Whatever. I'm in agreement with Scarlett and just put it all on the table and be done with it. Make a decision once and for all and go with it already. What are you waiting for really? As for the texting thing, with all due respect, get over it.
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