chris maurice Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 We've been broken up over 3 months now and bout 6 since the relationship fell apart. She sent me a msg a while ago saying she found some stuff with me and she's sorry for what happened. I just sent back a msg and said take care. . Then she messaged me again with the same kinda stuff. She found stuff with us, then saying she got stuff to tell me bout y the relationship fell apart. At first i wanted to know but it would just hurt me so I said no. My bday was a while ago. I didn't even get a message from her. That stung a bit, all the time she was messaging me, wanted to talk n stuff n couldnt even send me a msg the day of my bday. Couldn't really be an ego boost because I didn't really say much to her. Now I'm in a mix of emotions again. Not feelings. Just emotions. What do I do here. I was gonna message her and say we should just move on and stop these games cuz I'm not up for that. Or do I just leave it alone and never message her again.
PegNosePete Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 do I just leave it alone and never message her again. Yes, this. What is to be gained by having any future contact? A strange game. The only winning move is not to play. 1
lonewolf110 Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 Yeah I think you should just go no contact. No need to inform her. But yes if she tries to contact you again just say in respectful manner that you would like space and arent available to talk right now. Her constant contact will only hinder your healing.
OldRover Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 We've been broken up over 3 months now and bout 6 since the relationship fell apart. She sent me a msg a while ago saying she found some stuff with me and she's sorry for what happened. I just sent back a msg and said take care. . Then she messaged me again with the same kinda stuff. She found stuff with us, then saying she got stuff to tell me bout y the relationship fell apart. At first i wanted to know but it would just hurt me so I said no. My bday was a while ago. I didn't even get a message from her. That stung a bit, all the time she was messaging me, wanted to talk n stuff n couldnt even send me a msg the day of my bday. Couldn't really be an ego boost because I didn't really say much to her. Now I'm in a mix of emotions again. Not feelings. Just emotions. What do I do here. I was gonna message her and say we should just move on and stop these games cuz I'm not up for that. Or do I just leave it alone and never message her again. If you really want her behind, just don't contact her. She will eventually get the message. If she keeps contacting you, delete her. If you want her back in your life, text her back and keep things rolling and eventually meet with her and listen to her and respond with positive comments. It's what you want.
Author chris maurice Posted December 8, 2015 Author Posted December 8, 2015 I'm tires of these games with her. Its now starting and I'm gonna end it. Was just too much pain in this relationship. I got put aside and was still around. I was a little boy back then. Still am but after today. Not anymore. Time to put my nuts together and be a man. And cut her off completely. That's what she wanted. And that's what she'll get. 1
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