lonewolf110 Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 I had posted earlier about my ex. We had broken up 2 months ago. A few days ago we had a three hour talk about our relationship and opened up about our mistakes and what went wrong. From my side, I had been unnecessarily hard on him, neediness and tried to break up with him once. Putting all that aside we decided to give us a second chance. He doesn't have his hopes high though. He thinks its pretty hopeless as the spark has gone but said he wants to give it a try. He proposed we hang out in a few weeks till then we will talk etc. Its my first time giving a dead relationship another try. So far ever since we talked about it, he has been distant. I feel confused myself if I am doing the right thing. Is it normal to feel a bit anxious? I think I am alright with the idea it might not work out but I will give my best. Any tips or advice to help me with it?
PegNosePete Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 He proposed we hang out in a few weeks till then we will talk etc. A few weeks?!?! Why not tomorrow? Seems his heart isn't in the reconciliation. Or he has someone else on the go that he wants to trial first. Personally I would not be prepared to try again unless he was ALL IN. If he's not all in then it will be a waste of time and you'll just get hurt all over again. 2
Author lonewolf110 Posted December 8, 2015 Author Posted December 8, 2015 Few weeks is because he is living almost 3 hours away. And currently he is at the other end of the country for work. His sister just came back from abroad after an year so he has to spend time with her. But yeah now that you say I do feel he is not all into it or is having doubts because of his disappearance act. Gotta pull myself back
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