Sherb Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 My husband went out for the first time in a while on Saturday, he got quite drunk and was home before 12pm. I noticed yesterday he added about 13 girls and two boys to his Facebook. All of them were young and single. When I confronted him, he said he doesn t know why he did it and that it was a stupid drunk thing. I asked what he thought he was going to do with his new friends, he said nothing and that he was drunk and horny and the pictures looked good. I went to bed early as it s my time of the month. He has cheated before we were married. Is this a red flag, or should I just leave it?
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 The red flag was when your husband was active on Facebook even while married to you. (and yes, I said "Facebook") You opted to ignore it.
Michelle ma Belle Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 My husband went out for the first time in a while on Saturday, he got quite drunk and was home before 12pm. I noticed yesterday he added about 13 girls and two boys to his Facebook. All of them were young and single. When I confronted him, he said he doesn t know why he did it and that it was a stupid drunk thing. I asked what he thought he was going to do with his new friends, he said nothing and that he was drunk and horny and the pictures looked good. I went to bed early as it s my time of the month. He has cheated before we were married. Is this a red flag, or should I just leave it? Nothing about this sounds promising. At least he seemed to be "honest" about why he added them which is more than what most wayward men would do.
healingsoul Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 Hi Sherb, This is a very difficult situation. Do you and your husband normally allow one or the other to go drinking alone? You said it was the first time in a while. Is this an area of your marriage that your husband has struggled with before. Is drinking a problem for him? Do you know what led him to go this Saturday? I ask this because it seems this is how all of the gathering of people's information and facebook activity started. I am so sorry you having to go through all of this. Keep communicating to your husband. 1
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