MoreAmore Posted December 11, 2015 Posted December 11, 2015 I have dated lots of guys and all they want is sex. I'm sick of it. I love sex but I want something more. The guy I'm dating currently just wants us to hang at his place and cuddle and mess around and fck. We've been together about 6 months and I'm just tired of it. I've been on a few dated recently and it's like no matter what the guy just looks at me like a sex toy or something and wants to take me back to his place. Are there really any guys with intelligence or is that a myth? Am I doing something wrong? Am I sending the wrong signal? This is driving me crazy and I'm beginning to feel like I'm the only one out here. Your title is blatantly untrue. You are picking bad guys if they only see your value in sex. What's leading to this? I run into almost only good guys who would love a relationship (whether I was at a point I could give it or note)
casey.lives Posted December 11, 2015 Posted December 11, 2015 Guys want sex.YES Guys only want sex. NO. Guys want a meaningful promising exclusive relationship. Depends on the guy.
salparadise Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 Men who place having an emotional connection in high regard are the ones who will want what you want. If they show no signs of wanting an emotional connection, avoid them. That's why I don't date guys my age. But my generation turned out rather badly in general I guess. But yes, there are intellectual men out there - and MY GOD these men get me drooling in conversation alone. Wouldn't mind having lots of sex with him either. Yes, yes, yes! The youngin's who go tugging at your panties before lighting the candles just haven't figured it out yet. They shoot themselves in the foot in terms of what both ultimately want and need. I contend that it's largely about focus and and eye contact... mental foreplay (not to be mistaken for sex talk/innuendo), building connection and getting the higher frequencies resonating is what sets the stage for great sex and a great relationship... and it's a delicate dance. If a man (and woman) can those things working before making moves she'll will probably be spring loaded by the time you actually get physical, and she'll let you know about that too. All of that stuff about guys pursuing hard and the woman resisting is amateur hour. It's a dance you do together and when you get things synchronized it just flows. It takes some effort to get the flow going, but it's definitely worth it. 1
lino Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 If you keep ending up with men who use you as a sex toy, then you're choosing these guys and letting them bonk you (unless you're being raped and that's a different discussion). Plenty of men out there would be willing to treat you as more than just sex but more than likely they're 'just friends' to you.
phineas Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 I for one do get tired of women that only want sex. They only want to see me when it's convient for them, ect. It gets boring. I prefer someone I can count on to be available regularly to go out or stay in but that is difficult to find.
truth_seeker Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 I have dated lots of guys and all they want is sex. I'm sick of it. I love sex but I want something more. The guy I'm dating currently just wants us to hang at his place and cuddle and mess around and fck. We've been together about 6 months and I'm just tired of it. I've been on a few dated recently and it's like no matter what the guy just looks at me like a sex toy or something and wants to take me back to his place. Are there really any guys with intelligence or is that a myth? Am I doing something wrong? Am I sending the wrong signal? This is driving me crazy and I'm beginning to feel like I'm the only one out here. There are girls you date and the one you marry. You sound like a girl to date.
truth_seeker Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 I have dated lots of guys and all they want is sex. I'm sick of it. I love sex but I want something more. The guy I'm dating currently just wants us to hang at his place and cuddle and mess around and fck. We've been together about 6 months and I'm just tired of it. I've been on a few dated recently and it's like no matter what the guy just looks at me like a sex toy or something and wants to take me back to his place. Are there really any guys with intelligence or is that a myth? Am I doing something wrong? Am I sending the wrong signal? This is driving me crazy and I'm beginning to feel like I'm the only one out here. You either come off as a h-e that attracts lowlife scum... or you go for lowlife scum. Which is it? I can tell you, if you're beautiful, educated, have good morals, integrity, I'd wife you up in a heartbeat. I don't take materialistic, dumb-witted, no morals, dresses like a sl-t women seriously.
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