mostdk Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 Hello all, I just had a date with my ex girlfriend after 2 weeks no contact. We hang out 3 days together (no conversation relate to break up) and she sometimes talked about old things when we were together. She said she is going to visit me again this month (we are in long distance) and we have planned the trip for next month. Just so you know: - She dumped me the reason was her feeling has changed (I assumed it from long distance) - We were together almost 5 years - During no contact sometimes she texted me, also after the trip she sometimes text me in general thing What should I do, I really want to get her back - if I can win her back I plan to move near her. Thank for all responses!
Samhain Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 She probably cares about you as a person but not the way you want her to. My suggestion.. Give it a last shot at telling her you are willing to move closer and see her response.. If she says no or makes excuses move on.
Captivating Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 Pull away, let her miss you and go after you. Her feelings will magically change. She expects you to be there whenever she wants you, she takes you for granted. It has to change. She needs to feel that life goes on with her or without her. Don't seem desperate, don't make yourself too available.!!! So when she asks you out tell her that you are busy on that day (don't tell her what you do, be mysterious ! "meeting friends". "Can I have a raincheck?" If she texts, wait with the answer!
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