unheartedninja Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 So I was in NC with the ex. First few times she contacted me i ignored it, and this last time i caved in and replied to her fb msg, and then she told me to text her, i got her number again and been texting here and there. We were talking about what i was doing, and i said nothing much, just cooking. She said feed me, and i was like it's not possible through phone then she said mail it and i said it'd rot. then she said let's go eat. I said i already ate but i'll take a raincheck. I'm not sure what to do. I feel like she still has a thing fo rme but im not sure. how do i ask if she's single etc etc. if I DO somehow deicde to meet up with her what should I do? p.s. haven't seen her since late september
d0nnivain Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 If you two have fixed all the things that broke you apart & you want to go backwards in life ask her on a date. However, I think she's just being nice. Don't get your hopes up. Also if you haven't fixed whatever broke you up, you will be back where you started. Why bother?
Author unheartedninja Posted December 8, 2015 Author Posted December 8, 2015 If you two have fixed all the things that broke you apart & you want to go backwards in life ask her on a date. However, I think she's just being nice. Don't get your hopes up. Also if you haven't fixed whatever broke you up, you will be back where you started. Why bother? I don't have my hopes up. I honestly just started talking as i was tired of being filled with so much hate in me. I figured i'd talk and hopefully move on and grow from this . I DEF have worked on my self, mentally, spiritually, and physically. I have learned to spread MORE love and less hate and judgment. I don't know if she has grown in any aspect. I do know that she put her EGO aside to talk to me because she was stubborn. BUt i could be wrong, is it okay for me to say this in a text? " okay so date then? see you tomorrow morning?" Or should i not bring that up and just go get breakfast and not be so weird and appear weak?
PegNosePete Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 is it okay for me to say this in a text? " okay so date then? see you tomorrow morning?" I would say something that is not so easy for her to dodge or deflect with humour. Something like: "Hi XXX, I've been thinking about us, and I'd really like to try again. I feel things would be better this time because XXX and YYY. If you're interested, just let me know" So you should get your answer from that. Anything but a definite "yes", and it's a no.
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