arbrne_vet Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 I have been 'dating' this woman for a bit. Saturday was our 6th 'date'. I am really not sure if these are 'dates' or nit, because se always wants to meet me. During dinner, she sat at an angle away from my direction. Occasionally, she would make eye contact. We did other things after dinner, and she rode with me. When the evening concluded, I dropped her off at her car, and went to kiss her, and it was not warmly received, then she turned her head. I felt like a low life, like i was taking something that did not belong to me. So ladies, wouldn't you know by the 6th date if you wanted to kiss a guy, or have him pick you up and have a 'real' date. She sent a text last night, asked how my day was, i responded. Sent me one this morning. It was simple, but she sent one. I am going to talk with her this evening, i just need a woman's input.
Versacehottie Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 I think if she is not particularly religious or inexperienced or culturally inappropriate, it would be normal to have kissed you by now willingly. The hot/cold vibe seems like she is doing keeping you around for entertainment and ego boost unless one of those other scenarios is going on.
Buddhist Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 Sixth date and she's turning her head away? Nix this one. I think she just wants company. 1
LilaMarie Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 (edited) Are you going dutch? I ask bc if I were not into a guy, I would definitely pay for my half. Did you inform her that you were inviting her on a 'date'? Some people like to say 'hang out' and friends 'hang out'...you get what I'm saying. What have you done to make it clear you have a romantic interest in her? Have you held her hand? If not, you've only got yourself to blame for being friend-zoned. Good luck OP. Edited December 8, 2015 by LilaMarie
smackie9 Posted December 8, 2015 Posted December 8, 2015 Her body language, and rejecting your advances is tell you........she is not interested. Don't waste anymore of your time.
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