Ballerboy5 Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 Long story short I was with my ex for about 5 months and then she broke up with me right before I was about to leave to go back home. ( I live in Canada and she lives in Memphis). That whole month before I was about to leave she started to act different and kind of distant from me. After we broke up she got back with her ex-boyfriend. We never lost contact we always would talk and she would always tell me how she misses me. Her and her ex boyfriend broke up two months later and after she started talking to a new guy. Which she always told me that it wasn't that serious she just needed someone. At the time I started talking to someone else it was a rebound tho just to get over her. She would always tell that she would eventually want us to work on things and work it out. That same month my Bestfriend passed away and we had got even closer and we were trying to work on things. That was around the same time I was still talking to someone else and so was she. But she started to get jealous when I started to post the other girl online and talk about her. But she was still talking to the guy so I didn't think much of it. But I eventfully cut the other girl off for her. And we continued to talk and get more serious and she even said she wasn't talking to the guy anymore. We argued a lot and I guess she started to act kind of strange again just like the first time we had broken up. We stopped talking as much because I could see she really wasn't interested anymore and she started to make up excuses. She eventually text me saying "I still love you (my name) I just wish I knew this could work out, but we've been through it it's nothing but back and fourth". That's when she blocked me from Twitter and I found out she started tweeting about someone else. I ended up blocking her on everything. But I still have her on Instagram and she dm the other day asking what I was doing and I said nothing. And she said she was just checking to see what I was doing. I'm just kind of upset because I don't see how she can move that fast and how she already is in love with someone else that she barely knows. Maybe I'm not good enough idk.
Author Ballerboy5 Posted December 7, 2015 Author Posted December 7, 2015 She just kept telling me how she doesn't want to be with anyone and how she's working on herself etc. Kind of switched up on me after she said she wanted to be with me. Just trying to find the best way to move on from this
NoLeafClover Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 How do you go back to someone who left you for another guy...then as you're talking she is jumping from one guy to the other then she gets mad when you're talking to someone... You my friend have a gem right there.
Nickr3023 Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 Long story short I was with my ex for about 5 months and then she broke up with me right before I was about to leave to go back home. ( I live in Canada and she lives in Memphis). That whole month before I was about to leave she started to act different and kind of distant from me. After we broke up she got back with her ex-boyfriend. We never lost contact we always would talk and she would always tell me how she misses me. Her and her ex boyfriend broke up two months later and after she started talking to a new guy. Which she always told me that it wasn't that serious she just needed someone. At the time I started talking to someone else it was a rebound tho just to get over her. She would always tell that she would eventually want us to work on things and work it out. That same month my Bestfriend passed away and we had got even closer and we were trying to work on things. That was around the same time I was still talking to someone else and so was she. But she started to get jealous when I started to post the other girl online and talk about her. But she was still talking to the guy so I didn't think much of it. But I eventfully cut the other girl off for her. And we continued to talk and get more serious and she even said she wasn't talking to the guy anymore. We argued a lot and I guess she started to act kind of strange again just like the first time we had broken up. We stopped talking as much because I could see she really wasn't interested anymore and she started to make up excuses. She eventually text me saying "I still love you (my name) I just wish I knew this could work out, but we've been through it it's nothing but back and fourth". That's when she blocked me from Twitter and I found out she started tweeting about someone else. I ended up blocking her on everything. But I still have her on Instagram and she dm the other day asking what I was doing and I said nothing. And she said she was just checking to see what I was doing. I'm just kind of upset because I don't see how she can move that fast and how she already is in love with someone else that she barely knows. Maybe I'm not good enough idk. Just got out of a relationship similar to yours my friend...sadly this has nothing to do with you and everything to do with her. Don't go back to her, I did twice because I didn't learn my lesson and wanted to believe she had changed. She didn't, it's just a trait she has that isn't going to change with anyone. Block her on everything and go no contact with her, or every time she gets lonely she knows you'll be there for her.....then when she finds someone new, you'll be kicked to the curb again. Sorry you're going through this, I know that type of pain as I'm also experiencing it right now. But try and think logically about the situation without emotion and you'll see that you deserve so much better.
Author Ballerboy5 Posted December 7, 2015 Author Posted December 7, 2015 Thank you and I only went back because I thought she changed and she kept saying how she did. But I will definetly go no contact.
Nickr3023 Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 I think we've all been there before, lured in at the thought that they're a different person....or you want back the person that you first fell in love with, not the one that was left at the end. Unfortunately that person rarely ever exists anymore and what you're left with is exactly what you see. Sorry to hear you're going through the same thing I am, I wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemy.
NoLeafClover Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 Thank you and I only went back because I thought she changed and she kept saying how she did. But I will definetly go no contact. Never believe just words...talk is cheap and actions always speak louder than words..Always
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