JamesPIII Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 Alright I'll try and make this as short as possible, I met this woman who had just gotten out of a 6 year marriage (she claims it was over long before they filed for divorce) and I'm just curious if she's using me to make her ex-husband jealous. When I first showed up to take her out, she told me hurry up because her ex was outside and she didn't want him to see me? Went inside and I started questioning why she didn't tell me while we we're on the phone and she said she was afraid I wouldn't come (As any sane person would ) but I stayed because I actually enjoyed being around her, talking and other things as well. Yesterday her ex-husband called the police and said he wanted some jersey's that were in her house, she told HIM that he had everything (restraining order), the interesting thing was he had his arms folded across his chest and was looking the opposite way, now I know what that means as far as body language goes, but the weird thing is she MOCKED exactly what he was doing, which made me start to question if there was still something there. I'll also let you know that she was willing to move, now whether or not that's just her trying to get me to stay is beyond me. Also she cracked a joke this morning about burning the place down to collect the insurance money. I'm not sure what to make of all this BS, anything would be much obliged.
PegNosePete Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 That all sounds like a whole bunch of drama that you don't need. I would wish her good luck and tell her to call me when everything's sorted. 2
GorillaTheater Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 It's not clear what her motivations may be, but one thing seems pretty clear: this is a bit more tinged with drama and pathos than a reasonable person should be willing to put up with.
Author JamesPIII Posted December 7, 2015 Author Posted December 7, 2015 I understand the drama part, TBH i'm willing to put up a fight because I really like her, thing is I can't get a read on her motives. Two things I might add she introduced me to her mother and is talking about "our" future, also she said I could stay back where I'm at until things get sorted out.
GorillaTheater Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 Two things I might add she introduced me to her mother and is talking about "our" future How long have you been seeing her? also she said I could stay back where I'm at until things get sorted out. What does that mean, exactly? Are we talking moving in with her?
Author JamesPIII Posted December 7, 2015 Author Posted December 7, 2015 How long have you been seeing her? A week What does that mean, exactly? Are we talking moving in with her? Yeah she wanted me to move in with her but with this BS that happened last night she said if I wanted to stay back with my cousin until she got things sorted out, she'd be down for that. S*** has me f***ing confused and aggravated because I like her but this d-bag husband won't leave her alone.
GorillaTheater Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 Yeah she wanted me to move in with her but with this BS that happened last night she said if I wanted to stay back with my cousin until she got things sorted out, she'd be down for that. S*** has me f***ing confused and aggravated because I like her but this d-bag husband won't leave her alone. You've been seeing her for week and on top of the drama you've posted about she's already picking out curtains? I think you're crazy not to leave her and her husband to each other.
Versacehottie Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 I understand the drama part, TBH i'm willing to put up a fight because I really like her, thing is I can't get a read on her motives. Two things I might add she introduced me to her mother and is talking about "our" future, also she said I could stay back where I'm at until things get sorted out. Someone who puts you in a position like that twice does not have CLEAR motives. This is the problem. TBH, it all sounds trashy and unnecessary drama--why would you want to get involved in that? Not the actions of someone looking to make their best impression on you. And if they will do this trashy drama stuff on the ex-husband in front of new guy she is trying to show the best side of herself--guess what the drama will follow! I think she has a knack for picking guys that like to be in "saving" mode and uses it to her advantage. So be prepared for much more of that type of stuff. My advice for a sane, stable life is to do as pegnose said and tell her to get back to you when she sorts it out. At the very least, she has poor judgement and manners. Good luck, you are going to need it.
Author JamesPIII Posted December 7, 2015 Author Posted December 7, 2015 You've been seeing her for week and on top of the drama you've posted about she's already picking out curtains? I think you're crazy not to leave her and her husband to each other. I hear you, I might add "ex husband," I guess it's time to call it off for the time being, clearly she's instigating this drama and bs, crafty I tell ya.
Cherryz Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 Whatever it may be or is, this woman is full of drama. You gonna get into a mess that you ddnt sign up for. Break all contact with her and date people that have their life in order. Run!!!!!!!!
Author JamesPIII Posted December 7, 2015 Author Posted December 7, 2015 Maybe just fight the ex-husband for sport lol
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