Emmarose1396 Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 Tim & I have been friends for 10 yrs. I had been dating a guy for 2 yrs & I spoke to Tim in the summer about how I was thinking of ending it b/c it just wasn't working About 2 months ago I started noticing Tim seemed like he was flirting w/me in a way he never had. Although I had never thought of him in that way I started to. One night, Tim & I had been talking & he told me how he had recently felt a small spark & found himself suddenly attracted to me. He then kissed me & told me he was sorry for making things confusing but he wanted me to know b/c we have always been honest w/each other. Since our talk I did wind up breaking it off w/my boyfriend. While this wasn't why the relationship ended it did play a part. Tim & I talked about it & he said how he wanted me to make sure that anything I was feeling was not a result of him being a rebound or b/c I didn't want to be alone About a week ago Tim & I saw each other b/c he asked me to go out for coffee w/ him. We had a great time & afterwards we cuddled and talked he kept saying he wanted to kiss me but didn't think it was a good idea since it was so soon. He told me he wanted to be honest w/me that a girl he had gone out with a few times a few months back recently came back into the picture & while he isn't sure if it will work he wanted to let me know. He then asked me if I felt he was betraying me by potentially looking into things w/this girl. I said no - he needs to find what makes him happy but I did ask if he thought it could work. He said he wanted a relationship where he would be comfortable&where he knew the girl & was friends w/her - all of which this girl doesn't have but I do I am trying not to let it bother me - but honestly, I do find myself really wanting to be w/Tim. I like him & although I do want him to be happy, I want him to be happy by being w/me. I don't know if he genuinely likes me or not - but I don't know what to do. Is he interested in dating me? Or should i try to get over it?
PegNosePete Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 He wants you to be the backup plan in case things don't work out with this other girl. Are you happy to be plan B? I certainly wouldn't be.
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