Chronotrgr Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 I had to break no contact to arrange a date and time that I could pick up the rest of my stuff, not much was said, I held up very well, she apologised for how things had gone down, told me she had missed me and loves me, I didn't really respond with anything short of telling her I didn't hold any grudges and I just want to move on, I had to hold back on opening up, did I do the right thing given that it could be the last time I speak to her?, a part of me thinks so but a part of me feels guilty for not at the very least wishing her the best for her life, I feel a little down since talking to her, how do you guys cope and get back on track after having a taste of contact again?.
PegNosePete Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 If it's the last time you're gonna speak, who cares how you came across or if you did the right thing? You won't be having any more contact anyway. Just get back on that horse. Day 1 today. Day 2 tomorrow.
livingon Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 Do what is right for you, follow your instincts. If you couldn't see any future with her, then let go. If there is still hope, sit down and talk, lay down the rules, and work on it. Both need to build up trust again.
na49 Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 After contact, I think the only thing that "gets you over it" is time (sorry). I know that I can't just psyche myself into feeling better only moments after it happens. As time passes, I think less and less about it, and thus, it has less and less of an effect on me.
Author Chronotrgr Posted December 7, 2015 Author Posted December 7, 2015 Thanks for the replies guys, I'm back on the run away no contact train again, I won't be thinking into things anymore than I already have, I ended it for good reasons, ai need to rememeher that and to keep going for my own sanity.
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