Trauma_Luna Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 Broke up after 6 years of awesome relationship. We broke up after she got a new job that was demanding her 12 to 14 hours daily and after 2 months of never seeing each other because she was always busy, she told me that she didn't need me anymore and that she was having a great time in her new job. I tried to get her back a lot of times but i always got rejected. I went NC but three days ago i broke and went to visit her. I had already tried to visit her but she always told me to leave and never gave me the chance to talk. But this time she was happy to see me, i told her i was just passing by and wanted to say hi, then she told to please stay because she really wanted to speak with me, we did not mention anything related to our relationship, we were just talking about our jobs and worth sharing experiences we have had since we're not together. Then i asked about her job and how she was feeling working there. She said she was so tired of it, she was not happy and she wanted to quit soon, she was really nostalgic about it. I told her that she should be happy about her job and that she should not regret anything, she was kind of sad. Then i told her i had to go but she asked me to please stay, she said "you can't go, you woke me up and now you must stay with me until i want to sleep again" so stayed and we talked a lot, it was very good. When i left she hugged me really hard and kissed me in the cheek. When i arrived home she started to text me things like "I can't sleep, stay awake with me please " and things like that I haven't had any contact with her since there, but i really miss her and still love her. Should i leave things like that? was this a signal that she wants to get back with me?
Wewon Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 Broke up after 6 years of awesome relationship. We broke up after she got a new job that was demanding her 12 to 14 hours daily and after 2 months of never seeing each other because she was always busy, she told me that she didn't need me anymore and that she was having a great time in her new job. Is there more to your story because from your OP you don't paint a very desirable picture of your ex. Her motives for breaking up and wanting you back sound a little mercenary. Maybe you should continue NC for a few months to see if you really miss her it sounds like you're just lonely.
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