Ibrahem Posted December 7, 2015 Posted December 7, 2015 Involving 2 guys. First, im being accused of forgetting my friends and not what not after I backed away from friends because there is a person who badmouth abt me to the whole school and i kinda dont like him. After times and times telling my goodfriends abt what he did to me and other of my friends, what type of person he is. Its sad to see they dont see to care and basically 'ok' with it. It seem like they dont understand what i felt for 3 years. After confronting with the badmouth guy, i dont want anything to do with him and after times and times telling my good friends , they tend not to care. and my friend kinda like accuse me for forgetting him or them. Thus, my good friend added him into the group/clan of ours. which i find it annoying and uncomfortable. Cmon, someone who backstabbed you for 3 years, came into the group and act nothing happen. Plus he told my good friend that he cant clique well with me. I backed away because i couldnt afford to keep telling things again and again and they dont even understand and it kind disturbed me a lot when my friend told me i forget them and avoid them base on the person he mixed. Secondly, there is another guy in the group which took away my good friends from me. I felt left out and felt they are much happier without me. I back away and sadly, im being accused for forgetting them after 2 of my good friends get close with that. I purposely back off because i wanted them to see for themselves who is the one that forget their friends. After 5 to 6 months, of not talking Then they said told me that i changed and i forget them. Am i in the wrong? well, as a friend who got backstabbed by the person you trusted a lot, the person you shared your problems to, and when knowing that my own good friend invite him to join our clan. now , is it wrong to even tell my good friend how bad this fella is? is it wrong to just move away from them to prevent things to repeat itself again? What more when this fella destroyed my childhood life. I got a girlfriend and i shared with her. I would not want her to get badmouth it when she did nothing wrong . I mean gossiping is part of life but i know my history basically what happened. So now, i would like to know if it is the right move or a wrong thing to do? 1
Countryredneckbae Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 Honestly you did the right thing. I stepped back from a bunch of my good friends because I wasn't being involved in anything and I got to the point it was like Why am I still with these people? If people stab you in the back Just turn away and go find new friends. I have been stabbed in the back 16 different times and each time is harder then the first. Friends are suppose to stay close not leave us behind. I know how you feel. I'm in the same place right now cause someone took my very best friend and I was stabbed in the back cause of my friend not even wanting to be around me with out having to be around the person who took my best friend from me.
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