Deadfix Posted May 30, 2005 Posted May 30, 2005 I met this girl over the internet, and what turned into just liking her turned into me actually caring alot about her, she feels the same way about me etc. Iam 18 shes 18. She is going to my state to visit with her mom and we want to meet, now iam not sure where we should meet, her mom is going to be with her because she thinks iam some old perv(that will change once she see's iam not) I was thinking about going to a mall then going out to eat, thats question one. The other question I wanted to ask is, if I really like her still when I meet her, would it be ok to kiss her out of affection for her? even though her mom is going to be there? the reason I say this is because I may get nervous having her mom around, now we already like eachother alot, we talked on the phone many times and seen both our bad sides and good, we have been truthful and havn't lied about our personality. And if it was ok, how would I go about doing it? thanks.
BigB Posted May 30, 2005 Posted May 30, 2005 Coffee shop, mall, restaurant, any public place would be fine. I'd say don't kiss her in front of her mom. Wait till you alone, you've had a change to get to know each other a little better (in person), and the time feels right.
deadfix Posted May 30, 2005 Posted May 30, 2005 thats little problem too , she is kind of half way across the other side of the country, so I dont know.
faux Posted May 31, 2005 Posted May 31, 2005 If you all agree to meet in a public place, it might be nice to just continue some conversation. Even if things can't be romantic, it might be fun to meet someone in person and just walk around, even if her mother is there. Things could also be very awkward, however. I have had some very good experiences with meeting friends from the internet, and some very bad ones as well. Whenever I did agree to meet someone, it was always in a public place with another friend present. I know that I can leave at any time if I want to. Sometimes it is interesting to see the non-textual side of a person, and it's great when it works out. If things don't work out, I can always leave. It sounds like you might have to decide whether or not you want to continue your friendship online, or see what will happen if you meet this girl. Since she lives across the country, it might not be a good idea to keep things romantic. This is entirely up to you; in this situation, I think you know what is better for you than I.
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