how do I take things slowly?

[sxbmb3388]

So I've been dating this one guy 3 weeks, and its been great, literally, we've had so much fun together!

 

Now we've both been single about a year and a half and have been upfront about the fact we want something with a little more substance. When we meet, we'll rent a movie, go for walks, go out to dinner or just have a night in.

 

Now In the 3 weeks we've seen each other, we've hung out about 9 times, but I don't want this to burn out or anything, as I know this has happened with my friends!

 

I don't want the same to happen to me!

 

does this sound like too much?

 

 

thanks

[Sally147]

If you are keeping your new relationship on a friends basis rather than an intimate one, I think it is fine to meet up often and see where it leads.

 

Sally 147

 

 

 

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[smackie9]

Why would you burnout when you both are really digging each other??? It should only get better don't you think?

[sxbmb3388]

Why would you burnout when you both are really digging each other??? It should only get better don't you think?

 

That's my logic, yet all of my friends are telling me not to rush it, so I'm guessing it must seem really rushed.

 

I've never really been the sort of person that sees someone they're dating so often. my ex of 7 years i used to see once a week, so to my friends this must look intense!

 

we talk everyday and are in constant contact, and my friends keep telling me to slow it down, which is why i'm getting a little worried! x

[sxbmb3388]

If you are keeping your new relationship on a friends basis rather than an intimate one, I think it is fine to meet up often and see where it leads.

 

Sally 147

 

 

 

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it's definitely past the friend point. We may as well be together, although I don't see the need to rush that, and i'm happy without a label at the minute.

 

This week i'm so busy with work though, so I don't think i'll be able to see him until the weekend!so maybe that'll be good! xxx

[d0nnivain]

Talking daily to someone you only met 3 months ago seems like over kill. It's also nearly impossibly to dial back from that but you must. Constant contact this early is potentially problematic. For now, if things are good, don't over analyze.