misty1114 Posted December 6, 2015 Posted December 6, 2015 I've been seeing a guy for about 2 months, been on 8 dates. We're not official yet. He and I are both in professional programs so we're both busy. In between our dates, he rarely texts me unless it's to make plans for the next date. The last time we saw each other was over 2 weeks ago, before Thanksgiving. After he came back in town after the break, he texted me and asked how my week went. Then he told me that he has finals almost every day for a week and a half but if he could get any free time, he'd like to see me. I understand he might not be able to meet during the week, but I was hoping he would at least spare an hour or two on the weekend to see me but he never followed up nor texted me at all. I texted him towards the end of the week to ask how his finals are going and he replied but did not make plan to meet up. I feel like if he really likes me then he'd make the time to see me or at least talk to me. Am I being unreasonable for expecting that from him during his finals?
d0nnivain Posted December 6, 2015 Posted December 6, 2015 Squeezing in a date during finals may be unreasonable but my feelings would be hurt too if he couldn't spare 5 minutes for a phone call.
xcupid Posted December 6, 2015 Posted December 6, 2015 Yep, unreasonable. He's busy with his finals. Let him be until they're over.
adiamond Posted December 6, 2015 Posted December 6, 2015 Currently in finals week too. I'd have no time for any dates right now. But, I could text/call for like an hour every 2 days. 1
smackie9 Posted December 6, 2015 Posted December 6, 2015 No texting between dates, don't hear from him during finals, only sees you once a week......he's not that into you and there is a possibility he is dating others.
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