Flozfzx Posted December 6, 2015 Posted December 6, 2015 need some advice my ex recently contact me and said she wants to meet so i met up with her she said she broke it off with her current boyfriend and wants to do consueling together before we start dating but i get this feeling she didnt. She told me the guy has a lot of stuff at her house that he needs to get before i can go over. I tested her to come over she said sure come but his stuff is here. I just get an uneasing feeling from her. Shes been talking anout the future and plans to go on dates. She picked me up to get coffee and we were talking and remembering things and laughing we left and i went to go get something at the convient store then she was texting me in error. "I got a drink from Jess" "Are you home yet" "i told them i have to go home once you get there" i was in shock and confronter her she was trying to make all type of excuses but thoses text werent for me. She kept saying yes i broke it off why are you creating drama ! Its done i have to let the dust settle pleasee. I dont know what to do should i walk away from this **** or ?
mtnbiker3000 Posted December 6, 2015 Posted December 6, 2015 Blahhh. Or what?? This sounds like nuthin but drama at your expense!! Move on and find yourself a more mature / stable woman!!! If you follow this, then you'll get exactly what you deserve!! 1
Chronotrgr Posted December 6, 2015 Posted December 6, 2015 I can't speak for you, I can only tell you what I would do, this is your ex girlfriend, she left you, she created a situation in which she got with someone else, that's completely her right to do that, but, now she wants you back, this being the case it's completely her responsibility to clean up her own mess to be able to move thing's along with you, now in my opinion, once somebody has left me, I give them the chance to think it over, I personally don't do anything with anyone else, never mind start up a new relationship, unless I'm 100% sure that the relationship is over for the long haul on both sides, in my eyes once she is with someone else in whatever way that may be, there's no going back, I wouldn't go back to this woman to be sloppy seconds, if she wanted you that badly believe me she would be Kunming through hoops and doing everything she can to make it happen and to make this mistake of a man disappear, she sounds like a spoilt entitled little princess who expects you rather than genuinely loves and desires to be with you. Like the poster above has stated, find a mature stable minded woman who will show you respect, don't entertain this drama, believe me its not worth it and you'll only have more drama down the line.
Nickr3023 Posted December 6, 2015 Posted December 6, 2015 need some advice my ex recently contact me and said she wants to meet so i met up with her she said she broke it off with her current boyfriend and wants to do consueling together before we start dating but i get this feeling she didnt. She told me the guy has a lot of stuff at her house that he needs to get before i can go over. I tested her to come over she said sure come but his stuff is here. I just get an uneasing feeling from her. Shes been talking anout the future and plans to go on dates. She picked me up to get coffee and we were talking and remembering things and laughing we left and i went to go get something at the convient store then she was texting me in error. "I got a drink from Jess" "Are you home yet" "i told them i have to go home once you get there" i was in shock and confronter her she was trying to make all type of excuses but thoses text werent for me. She kept saying yes i broke it off why are you creating drama ! Its done i have to let the dust settle pleasee. I dont know what to do should i walk away from this **** or ? Oh my friend, as someone that took a woman back who left me for someone else.....DO NOT DO IT! As tempting as it sounds, as great as it would be to try and rekindle the romance and the love. You will never trust her to not abandon you again. It will never be the same. Things will feel great for a short amount of time...few weeks or months, but over time it'll creep back into your mind, especially anytime even the smallest hint of something being wrong. It's not worth your emotional and mental well being to put yourself through it.
LadyStark Posted December 6, 2015 Posted December 6, 2015 Oh my friend, as someone that took a woman back who left me for someone else.....DO NOT DO IT! As tempting as it sounds, as great as it would be to try and rekindle the romance and the love. You will never trust her to not abandon you again. It will never be the same. Things will feel great for a short amount of time...few weeks or months, but over time it'll creep back into your mind, especially anytime even the smallest hint of something being wrong. It's not worth your emotional and mental well being to put yourself through it. ^^ Completely agree with this..
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