pioneer Posted May 29, 2005 Posted May 29, 2005 Iv been split with my ex for about 7 months now. I was feeling quit down yesterday and i was thinking about her all day, we'd been together for about 5 1/2 years. I know shes been seeing someone else for about 6 weeks. Anyway i decided to text her. When i sent the message, i got no delivery report off it. I was wondering why, so i decided to ring (withholding my number.) When i did, i found out shes changed her number. Its made me feel so bad that someone i was with and loved so much for so long, has totally broken contact with me. The thought of her with someone else, doing all the things we used to do together is killing me. I feel so alone, and i don't think im ever going to find anyone i love as much as her. In a way its making me angry that shes changed her number and kind of making me want to find it out. Obviously her new boyfriend has asked her to change it. All sorts of things are going through my head, like trashing his car and stuff, i find myself taking alternative routes around to avoid seeing his car outside her house. How can someone ou were with so long just forget about you like this? the thing that bothers me the most is, i know from friends that knew us both that she aint known this lad very long, ad yet hes stopping at her house every night and stuff. Basically hes taken my place in every respect. I feel so depressed over it all, and its really getting me down, im sick of going out with mates now, its boring me. The light nights are here and i want to be with my ex. I was so happy this time last year with her.
HotCaliGirl Posted May 29, 2005 Posted May 29, 2005 Originally posted by pioneer In a way its making me angry that shes changed her number and kind of making me want to find it out. Obviously her new boyfriend has asked her to change it. You are still in denial that she no longer wants you in her life. She does not want to make you want to find her number, but instead she doesn't want you to know what her number is so you can no longer contact her. You have to realize that it is unlikely that her new boyfriend asked her to change it. She decided to change it so that you will no longer contact her or for whatever other reason she might have. I've changed my number in the past after a break-up but it was not to play hard to find or anything like you are imagining instead of facing the truth, which is that she has started a new chapter in her life without you. I bet it does hurt but you have to meet someone else and move on just like she already has, without sticking your head in the sand and not seeing what is clear, that she doesn't want you to break NC. I'm sure she has informed all of her friends and family and those who she wants calls from of her new number. You are not included on that list. So sorry your heart is still broken, but you have to stop your futile wishful thinking. I too am still hurting but if I ever called and the number was changed, I would not think it was to make it hard for me to contact him instead of the obvious fact not to contact!!!! For real...
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