Is he interested? Not interested?

[kaylababy88]

Okay so this is kind of long so bare with me. I just got out of a 3 year relationship, my ex cheated on me. So after about a month I started talking to a guy. He's not just any guy though he's my ex boyfriends sisters ex. Weird right lol? So me and him started talking on Facebook about what happened with our relationships and why they

 

 

didn't work out. We were messaging for a bit and then he said "If you ever need a hiking, dinner, or drinking buddy let me know and I'd be more than happy to be there" So I asked him if he wanted to meet the next day for drinks and lunch and he agreed. We met and we were at he restaurant for a good 5 hours just talking to each other.. just about what happened with me and Alex and what happened with him and Lupe. (They've been broken up for the past 11 months) we mostly just kept the convo light just talking about movies and other nerdy stuff. So anyway he knew that I was going to be spending Thanksgiving alone so he told me "why don't you come over to my place, we'll make food, play pool, drink, and we both decided we wanted to do a Star Wars marathon. So I went over and we ate, drank a little bit, played pool, and watched Star Wars so towards the end of the evening one thing led to another and we started making out and then that led to sex and more making out. I stayed the night obviously and the next day he walked me to my car and gave me a pretty passionate kiss goodbye. So here's the thing since Thanksgiving he has yet to get my number. We only talk to each other on Facebook messager. I've talked to him since Thanksgiving again just keeping it light and funny and he always responds to my messages right away. But has yet to ask me to hang out again. So yesterday I asked him if he's up for a hike. He agreed without any hesitation. We went hiking the next day and had a great time once we reached to the top of the mountain he was sitting next to me but each time he'd get up he'd start sitting closer and closer to me. Then he went for it and we started making out. So what is this?

Your opinion? So it's been about 3 days since we went hiking. and I haven't heard from him. He has my number now but I haven't got anything. What should I do? I think he's just trying not to be too pushy with me because he knows it's only been a month since my breakup.

[Zippy2000]

First of all stop worrying why he hasnt got your number. Girl! Thats SOOO last decade.

 

Nowadays you have the likes of Snap chat, or Messenger. That will do for some people I mean who phone people these days. I have a lot of people/friends who just text me nowadays.

 

Is he interested? Maybe but only time will tell so take it easy.

 

I dont like him using the phrase "drinking buddy". Makes it sounds like your one of the lads. A friend even.

[kaylababy88]

So what should I do in the mean time? Just wait to see if he initiates contact? I mean there's obviously an attraction here towards me. We kissed pretty heavy when we reached the summit of our hike.