rsmoto86 Posted December 5, 2015 Posted December 5, 2015 Hi all...I'll try to be short in what has happened. I met a women back in May. We exchanged numbers and a few days later we met up. Things started well. On the second date she told me she is still legally married. From what I got out of the story, they where together for 5 years, they got married in court and a month later he never showed up at the actual wedding ceremony in Mexico. So she filled for annulment. I didn't make a big deal of it and we continued to see each other for the next 5 months. In those 5 months, she never once paid for anything or offered to pay or even cook me a dinner. It was always me, everywhere we went dinner, drinks, concerts.. you name it. I thought that would change, but nope....we went to weekend trips together....nothing it was me covering all the costs. and its not like she doesn't have a job. she does, a very good one. Throughout that time she was going through the legal court stuff with the divorce and I wanted to give her space but at the same time I made sure she knew from me verbally that I am there for her if she needs to talk, which she did talk to me from time to time about it. But things eventually started to fade off...I could see she started to get more distant and cold. Not wanting to see me. By the end of September she ended things with me, saying she is not ready and needs to figure stuff out in her life. For the next two months she would text me from time to time telling me she misses me and misses me in her life....so on my birthday last month she contacted me and wanted to take me out...we went out and things started back up with us. we talked and I was straight forward with her about everything that I want to be with her and that she should give this a chance. Not much has changed...a roller coaster ride everyday. One day I feel like she is into me, the next nothing. I'll flirt with her over text or when she calls me, or give her a compliment on something...nothing. just cold. Other days she is into me and wants to do things and see me...... This weekend she is invited to a Christmas party which she has told me about and I know her brother is going with his wife, her sister is going with her boyfriend.....did she even ask me or invite me? Of course not. Last night she called me after work and I called her back 10 min later as I was leaving work. An hour later she texts me saying, "im out. I'll talk to you later or tomorrow". I replied is everything ok, I saw you called and I was calling you back. She replies, "nothing just called talk to you later". Way to blow me off.....this was a first from her. Even when she is out, she would text me throughout the night or we would meet up later that evening being the weekend....my guess is there is another guy.
xcupid Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 You're right. This is going nowhere. Find someone else.
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