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LilaMarie Established Member

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The OP keeps saying it's LUCK. Sometimes the men put in effort pursuing and sometimes persistence overcomes resistance. Not everyone has the same dating style or beliefs.

katiegrl Established Member

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Luck has everything to do with some guys being in a relationship versus others, not the quality of the man, or anything he's doing differently.

 

An example: I see threads on these boards regularly where women are wanting advice about how to save their relationships with guys who are unable or unwilling to have sex with them. I've said numerous times in these threads that these guys are not real men, and I tell these girls each and every time to hit the street and find a decent single guy like myself who is fully functional when it comes to the bedroom.

 

Let me emphasize: these guys are not real men, not quality men, yet somehow they are able to find relationships with women who want to be with them despite that. That is just luck, pure and simple, certainly not because they are quality guys.

 

Well I could argue that these men simply lost interest in said woman .....but I won't bother because it has become quite clear that you are not open to differing perspectives....so it is a futile waste of energy continuing trying to help you or even continuing this discussion.

 

So all I will do is wish you the best .... maybe get back to us in a year and let us know how your same approach and attitude are working for ya.

 

Insanity = Continuing/repeating the *same* behavior...but expecting a *different* result.

 

Not gonna happen, but good luck anyway.

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Rejected Rosebud Established Member

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An example: I see threads on these boards regularly where women are wanting advice about how to save their relationships with guys who are unable or unwilling to have sex with them. I've said numerous times in these threads that these guys are not real men, and I tell these girls each and every time to hit the street and find a decent single guy like myself who is fully functional when it comes to the bedroom.

OH MY GOD. Once again, you fail to acknowledge the fact of LOVE and CARING for person. If you love a guy and are emotionally invested in him, you are going to try to make it work - not just hit the street looking for a man "like yourself" who can have sex. :sick::sick:

 

Let me emphasize: these guys are not real men, not quality men, yet somehow they are able to find relationships with women who want to be with them despite that. That is just luck, pure and simple, certainly not because they are quality guys.

 

Your sexual prowess doesn't say anything about the "quality" of guy you are. :rolleyes::rolleyes: Lots of guys can f***.

 

Do you have any sense at all about emotional connections, caring, chemistry, LOVE? I am getting the idea that these concepts are just not in your lexicon.

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jay1983 Established Member

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Have you ever thought that you wouldn't be single either if you would lower your standards? This is basically what you are asking women to do which is to settle for a man they are just lukewarm (if even that) about. There are plenty of women who will date you if you just lower your standards.

 

Getting into the nuts and bolts here.

Gaeta Established Member

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Luck has everything to do with some guys being in a relationship versus others, not the quality of the man, or anything he's doing differently.

 

An example: I see threads on these boards regularly where women are wanting advice about how to save their relationships with guys who are unable or unwilling to have sex with them. I've said numerous times in these threads that these guys are not real men, and I tell these girls each and every time to hit the street and find a decent single guy like myself who is fully functional when it comes to the bedroom.

 

Let me emphasize: these guys are not real men, not quality men, yet somehow they are able to find relationships with women who want to be with them despite that. That is just luck, pure and simple, certainly not because they are quality guys.

 

 

So if luck is why women and men are in relationships

 

And men being of quality has nothing to do with them being in relationships

 

Why are you on here complaining you can't find a relationship even though you are a man of quality?

 

Haven't you already recognized being in a relationship has nothing to do with 'quality' ?

 

And by pure curiosity, why do you consider yourself a man of quality?

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Rejected Rosebud Established Member

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Well I could argue that these men simply lost interest in said woman ......
Or that maybe he has a medical condition that is or causes ED - that makes him 'not a real man'. :mad::mad: Right.
katiegrl Established Member

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Or that maybe he has a medical condition that is or causes ED - that makes him 'not a real man'. :mad::mad: Right.

 

Yup, or maybe going through a stressful period in his life... that happened to me recently with my fiance ...who happens to be an extremely high quality guy. We are back on track now though.....:bunny::bunny:

 

There are just soooooo many reasons ....relationships are complex...go through cycles....for the OP to suggest that the only reason is because said guy is not a quality guy ...or not a "real" man ...... is as obtuse a notion as the rest of his posts.....

phineas Established Member

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Some women stay single because they aren't as hot as they think they are and keep going for guys who have more options than them while refusing to date average men.

 

Or more simply put they are too picky.

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losangelena Established Member

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Some women stay single because they aren't as hot as they think they are and keep going for guys who have more options than them while refusing to date average men.

 

Or more simply put they are too picky.

 

 

Which could definitely be said of men as well.

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Versacehottie Established Member

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Luck has everything to do with some guys being in a relationship versus others, not the quality of the man, or anything he's doing differently.

 

An example: I see threads on these boards regularly where women are wanting advice about how to save their relationships with guys who are unable or unwilling to have sex with them. I've said numerous times in these threads that these guys are not real men, and I tell these girls each and every time to hit the street and find a decent single guy like myself who is fully functional when it comes to the bedroom.

 

Let me emphasize: these guys are not real men, not quality men, yet somehow they are able to find relationships with women who want to be with them despite that. That is just luck, pure and simple, certainly not because they are quality guys.

 

dumb, flawed logic. Why are you handing all of YOUR power over to luck, fate, fairness or unfairness? It's is not just good luck that certain guys end up in the relationships they want or plain relationships whereas other guys don't. If you want to pin everything on luck, are convinced you have bad luck, well then there is no point in even having this discussion because it means you will forever be hopelessly out of luck and not in a relationship. Very victim-y, which is definitely affecting your results with women. Work on attitude.

Versacehottie Established Member

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Some women stay single because they aren't as hot as they think they are and keep going for guys who have more options than them while refusing to date average men.

 

Or more simply put they are too picky.

 

True. And possibly applies to OP? Just saying.

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William Established Member

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As it appears a number of members are ignoring the previous directive, and since this topic seems to have run it's course, we will be leaving this thread closed. ~Thank you for your participation

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