new2dating123 Posted December 5, 2015 Posted December 5, 2015 (edited) I was wondering about this . I am the kind of guy who does not like to bug anyone to much with phone calls or texts . I let her set the pace with this at first and let that set the guage at how much to do this in return . After the 3 month spot her calls & texts have dropped off 90% . Is this normal or am i done for ? Like tonight i didnt send a ''night'' and nothing from her . Otherwise when i see her on weekends things seem just fine . Edited December 5, 2015 by new2dating123
supersot Posted December 5, 2015 Posted December 5, 2015 If everything "seems fine" when you're together, and she agrees to see you when she asks...or likely SHE is asking YOU to do things, I guarantee if she has slid off on contacting you, it's because she thinks you are not interested, and you should be putting in far more effort. I recently started seeing a guy 2 months ago, at first he pursued...then I started to like him and I became more of the pursuer. There came a point where I wondered wtf would actually happen with this guy and I just sat back and waited for him to text me. Once I had totally given up on him, he has been pursuing me like crazy...now the balance is 60% him, 40% me, which is far more satisfying for me, as I can see he actually is interested...now it's clear. Text her or call her and ask her to do something! Don't worry about games and rejection. life is too short.
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