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Levels of love expression


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Need some feedback as to whether I should be worrying about the below

 

Me 36 years and her 23 years old

 

Both very much in Love, everything is perfect although compared to previous relationships, face to face I always tell her that I love her and she always responds with I love you too and certainly shows it, although she never says it first, but only responds ie she has never really said I love you and me respond with what she says ie I love you too.

 

Should I be concerned, or is it just a personality or age thing?

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Not considering the huge age difference, it's probably just the type she is. I find many women either are to shy too or expect to have the man say it first.

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Need some feedback as to whether I should be worrying about the below

 

Me 36 years and her 23 years old

 

Both very much in Love, everything is perfect although compared to previous relationships, face to face I always tell her that I love her and she always responds with I love you too and certainly shows it, although she never says it first, but only responds ie she has never really said I love you and me respond with what she says ie I love you too.

 

Should I be concerned, or is it just a personality or age thing?

 

In general, women want to hear it first and like to hear it often. Men, however, generally, don't say it but show it in big ways. And, even when a man shows a woman how much he loves her and she knows men don't say it usually, she's still thinking "why doesn't he say he loves me".

 

By that same token, women will come here and post about her man not saying I love you and we will tell her to look at the big picture, you probably should do that in this case. How does she make you FEEL? Do you feel truly loved? If you didn't have that "validation", are you doubting her feelings for you? If not, let it be. I'll bet she will say it first somewhere along the line, when you least expect it :)

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Read 5 languages of love. That will help you recognize how she expresses her love. You will understand her love language

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