Rimbaud59 Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 So, I met a girl in my class who's in a long term relationship and she became very attracted to me. She told me that she had dumped her boyfriend: ''well, he thinks we're in a relationship, I don't.'' We then went on a date and at the end of the date we kissed passionately but briefly. In the date she admitted she found me very attractive and was sexually attracted to me. Since then she has gone on holiday with her boyfriend and I stopped contact for four months because she refused to meet up with me, despite flirting in class. I could still feel that attraction. Anyways, I messaged her a couple of weeks ago, because I Was bored: Preface: now I know she doesn't want to meet up, but what I'm interested in is: was she lying? or is she conflicted, blowing hot and cold, because she doesn't want to stray from her boyfriend? I said: I keep delusionally think that because we had mutual attraction and an instantaneous connection you would be interested in hanging out, but i forget that you have a boyfriend and you're now severly disinterested? She said: I'm not disinterested. I said: How do you mean? She said: I'd be interested in hanging out I said: Are you saying: you would hang out but you have a boyfriend? or are you suggesting that you're happy to hang out She said: Hanging out seems fun. I said: So when are you free to get together? She said: (no response and message not seen) 3 days later: I said: Oh. Très. Très. Confuse. Je suis très beau. You said you were interested in hanging out, but you didn’t respond or acknowledge my attempt to make a definite arrangement of when to meet up? Were you just being polite and have no interest in meeting or willing to arrange a time? Either way, I hope you're rockin' and that post university life is good. She said: I'm sorry. I've been sick and juggling work and trying to get my teaching qualifications. I'm interested in hanging out. Your bad French is very entertaining. 2 weeks later: I ask her out. She ignores me. Says she has no time free whatseover (has to book a holiday for us to hang out? Wtf?) Says she has no annual leave atm and only three days off for Christmas.
basil67 Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 Stop contacting her. And if she contacts you, ignore her. She's just playing games
almond Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 She's not worth the effort. She's screwing over her boyfriend in a big way. She doesn't care about him, and she doesn't care about you. This girl seems much too selfish and immature to care for anyone but her lying little self. Go find someone who doesn't treat the people in her life like absolute trash. Block and delete.
Author Rimbaud59 Posted December 4, 2015 Author Posted December 4, 2015 (edited) So I was right to feel really pissed off about this? She basically told me to contact her, right? What does it mean if a women is playing games? no interest? Oh, I should also mention that after I kissed her on the date I haven't been able to see her once. Not once. Which really confused me. Edited December 4, 2015 by Rimbaud59
truth_seeker Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 First mistake you made: getting hooked on a girl with a boyfriend. Lesson to learn: any woman who is attached (boyfriend, fiance, husband) and is willing to hook up with you, is no good. You can't trust her.
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