Ibrahem Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 I am actually sad.. sad because im being accused of forgetting my friends and not what **** after I backed away from friends because there is a person who badmouth abt me and i dont like him. After times and times telling my friends abt what he did, what type of person he is. After confronting with the badmouth guy, i dont want anything to do with him and after times and times telling my good friends , they tend not to care. and my friend kinda like accuse me for forgetting him or them. Moreover, there is another guy in the group which took away my good friends from me. I felt left out and felt they are much happier without me. I back away and sadly, im being accused for forgetting them after 2 of my good friends get close with that. I purposely back off because i wanted them to see for themselves who is the one that forget their friends. After 5 to 6 months, of not talking Then they said told me that i changed and i forget them. Am i in the wrong?
Samhain Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 From what I understood of that, I don't think you're in the wrong but you're probably very young and all of your friends no doubt are too. We make a lot of friends along our path. When we go on through different things in life we meet new people. Some people are toxic, sometimes it's even a whole bunch of people! If you can't ignore the things that have happened then you have to move on and forget all of these "friends". Or just ignore it and start a clean slate and try and do it all again as a grown up.
preraph Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 I think where you slipped up is you expected some friends who are not really that close to just do as you said and turn against the one guy because you don't like him. That usually causes some problems. Why they say you forgot about them, I do not know. If you feel there is no truth to this, then you may have to explain why you distanced yourself if you did. Otherwise, sounds like it's gone bad and your best use of energy might be simply to start trying to make a new set of friends. Good luck.
Author Ibrahem Posted December 7, 2015 Author Posted December 7, 2015 As a friend who got backstabbed by the person you trust a lot, the person you shared your problems to, and when knowing that my own good friend invite him to join our clan. Is it wrong to even tell my good friend how bad this fella is? is it wrong to just move away from them to prevent things to repeat itself again?
Author Ibrahem Posted December 7, 2015 Author Posted December 7, 2015 I think where you slipped up is you expected some friends who are not really that close to just do as you said and turn against the one guy because you don't like him. That usually causes some problems. Why they say you forgot about them, I do not know. If you feel there is no truth to this, then you may have to explain why you distanced yourself if you did. Otherwise, sounds like it's gone bad and your best use of energy might be simply to start trying to make a new set of friends. Good luck. well, as a friend who got backstabbed by the person you trusted a lot, the person you shared your problems to, and when knowing that my own good friend invite him to join our clan. now , is it wrong to even tell my good friend how bad this fella is? is it wrong to just move away from them to prevent things to repeat itself again? What more when this fella destroyed my childhood life.
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