jazzyhands89 Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 I think he lost interest, sorry. It happens alot on OLD.
brokengirl85 Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 Whoa! Slow down girl. Stop putting ideas into someones head without any credible evidence. Im a bloke and in my opinion I d say he felt let down you didnt go out with him when he text you at 10pm. I ve asked out girls before on the same day but maybe no so late but I feel disappointed when they cant make it. Some of us men like to be a tad spontaneous but we do sulk a little if you dont go through with our plans. Kudos points for making a counter offer. I d say he`s interested but he`s perhaps not getting green light signals for him to pursue. Give it time and suggest a date to see if he`ll be up for it. Let us know how you get on. I'm sorry, but this is really bad advice Asking you to meet a t a bar at 10 pm IS a booty call. From here to China the guy is not interested, OP. He might have someone else he wants to pursue. He is not pursuing you AT ALL, don't you notice it? Stop contacting him! You're decreasing your value Forget about him, even if he starts pursuing you now, it's because plan A didn't ork out. You're plan B. Or C...or D Sorry 1
Author mssweet Posted December 4, 2015 Author Posted December 4, 2015 (edited) a k I've initiated all communication since the last date. I'm not the clingy type -- all evidence to the contrary . . . "Why "Whya This is driving me crazy but it was very late notice (10pm) and I wasn't in anyway prepared. BUT I let him know I would love to go another night with him. He kind of ignored I said that. -- Don't ya know a booty call when ya get one? He wanted it NOW. there isn't anything mixed about this . . . he'll respond, sure. Why wouldn't anyone eat a steakthat was brought to them on a silver platter . . . Lol no, I'm not clingy. Am I getting anxious and analytical though? Yes, and I know I am. I'm not blowing up the dudes phone or grilling him for answers. Last time I contacted him was on Thanksgiving. That's all. But I'm just laughing at the whole booty call thing. Just the thought of him making a booty call makes me laugh, because he doesn't seem that type at all. Edited December 4, 2015 by mssweet
Redhead14 Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 (edited) Lol no, I'm not clingy. Am I getting anxious and analytical though? Yes, and I know I am. I'm not blowing up the dudes phone or grilling him for answers. Last time I contacted him was on Thanksgiving. That's all. But I'm just laughing at the whole booty call thing. Just the thought of him making a booty call makes me laugh, because he doesn't seem that type at all. he doesn't seem that type at all -- You don't know him well enough to know what type he is . . . not everything is as it "seems" sometimes. What you do know, right now, is that he called you at 10 pm to get together. Don't reach out to him anymore. Sit back and observe. If he calls you soon and sets something up properly, great. Otherwise, you keep moving. Edited December 4, 2015 by Redhead14 2
Author mssweet Posted December 4, 2015 Author Posted December 4, 2015 he doesn't seem that type at all -- You don't know him well enough to know what type he is . . . not everything is as it "seems" sometimes. What you do know, right now, is that he called you at 10 pm to get together. Don't reach out to him anymore. Sit back and observe. If he calls you soon and sets something up properly, great. Otherwise, you keep moving. Right, I understand what you were saying and I agree with you. Btw though, we were already texting for a few hours that night, which I initiated, then it was later on in conversation he said I should come out. It wasn't that he suddenly called me at 10. I bet if I didn't text him first that night, I probably wouldn't of heard from him anyway.
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