Liquinn Posted December 3, 2015 Posted December 3, 2015 Why is it a dissapointment when you meet someone online in person? I remember a girl I used to know knew about my fetish but it was never brought up in person. Why is it different when you meet someone in person from online?
Redhead14 Posted December 3, 2015 Posted December 3, 2015 Why is it a dissapointment when you meet someone online in person? I remember a girl I used to know knew about my fetish but it was never brought up in person. Why is it different when you meet someone in person from online? I kinda don't understand your question, but . . . I'd say it's because when you've never met them in person, you are idealizing them and picturing them in a perfect "light", romanticizing. So when you meet them they don't meet your idealized vision of them and they probably can't live up to it anyway. Nobody is perfect and that's what you are envisioning. As far as talking about those things in emails and chats, etc., it's just less embarrassing/awkward to do that there than it is in person with someone you don't know well. It's not about whether they are from OLD or not. It's just not something you'd do early in a dating scenario anyway unless that's all you're looking for.
PegNosePete Posted December 3, 2015 Posted December 3, 2015 Because you don't know them online. You make up all sorts of fantasies in your head about what they are really like. You imagine how they are and fill in the gaps that you don't know with your own imagination. It's hardly surprising they're not actually like that, is it? This is why you should meet sooner rather than later.
Zippy2000 Posted December 3, 2015 Posted December 3, 2015 Im more interested in what your fetish is. lol
Michelle ma Belle Posted December 3, 2015 Posted December 3, 2015 Im more interested in what your fetish is. lol Massaging feet.
Author Liquinn Posted December 3, 2015 Author Posted December 3, 2015 I seem to talk about feet than actually looking at them. Ugh.
Author Liquinn Posted December 3, 2015 Author Posted December 3, 2015 I found that with a girl I knew - when we met in person it wasn't as good.
Author Liquinn Posted December 3, 2015 Author Posted December 3, 2015 Maybe I should have spoken on the phone... but even then. Do you really know anyone?
Zippy2000 Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 Odd! I have a thing about girls who have really feminine feet. I like the look of them. I remember a few years back I was attracted to a girl until she took of her shows and she had crows feet and it put me off her for life. lol You should of brought the subject up while you are in person. You tend to find people can talk openly more on the net than in person. Then again it depends on the person.
Brady_to_Moss Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 I met my ex online...flew down to see her in person and we hit it off in the first 10 min more than 3 months of talking first..guess it just depends 1
losangelena Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 Odd! I have a thing about girls who have really feminine feet. I like the look of them. I remember a few years back I was attracted to a girl until she took of her shows and she had crows feet and it put me off her for life. lol You should of brought the subject up while you are in person. You tend to find people can talk openly more on the net than in person. Then again it depends on the person. What do you mean by "crows feet?" Those are wrinkles: https://www.google.com/search?q=crows+feet&espv=2&biw=1277&bih=679&site=webhp&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwixs6ahh8HJAhUY9WMKHewpDmcQ_AUIBigB Do you just mean she had ugly feet?
Author Liquinn Posted December 4, 2015 Author Posted December 4, 2015 Looked back at two convo's from where I was gong to meet But didnt. It's often a let down.
loverboy69 Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 What do you mean by "crows feet?" Those are wrinkles: https://www.google.com/search?q=crows+feet&espv=2&biw=1277&bih=679&site=webhp&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwixs6ahh8HJAhUY9WMKHewpDmcQ_AUIBigB Do you just mean she had ugly feet? LOL. Yeah I was going to say.... Need to go botox those feet! 1
truthtripper Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 Massaging feet. I once went on a date with this guy who had a foot fetish. After dinner he wanted to inspect my feet to determine if he was going to see me again. I'd noticed a few red flags before this so I wasn't intending to see him again anyway.
Author Liquinn Posted December 4, 2015 Author Posted December 4, 2015 How did he bring his fetish up?
Yummm Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 Haha - just try massage her feet if she's comfortable with it and it will become more obvious that you're into them
Author Liquinn Posted December 4, 2015 Author Posted December 4, 2015 Haha - just try massage her feet if she's comfortable with it and it will become more obvious that you're into them I was going to meet a girl back in 09 who defended me liking feet / but we never met. I still have the convo, though. She seemed nice.
Yummm Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 You'll find someone who you can share your fetish with. I don't have some obsessive fetish but I have always been attracted to a woman's foot. Offering a foot massage always seems to do the trick to bring it up
Author Liquinn Posted December 4, 2015 Author Posted December 4, 2015 (22:30) Liquinn: Socks piss me off :L (22:30) -: yeh they only get in the way, i usually wear dolly shoes or bare feet. 22:34) -: what size are yours/ ? (22:34) Liquinn: 8 Yours? (22:34) -: 6-7 (22:34) Liquinn: (22:34) -: so we are nearly the same lol. ================================ (21:21) -: thanks, i'm always playing with my feet and toes lol. We never met:/
loverboy69 Posted December 6, 2015 Posted December 6, 2015 I had a guy tell me my feet weren't dirty and sweaty enough thus the relationship had to end. He only liked dirty smelly feet. Needless to say there was no broken heart at least on my end. 1
Author Liquinn Posted December 6, 2015 Author Posted December 6, 2015 Looked back at a few old convo's in which i met the person and the people seemed "better" online. Why is this?
Yummm Posted December 6, 2015 Posted December 6, 2015 I had a guy tell me my feet weren't dirty and sweaty enough thus the relationship had to end. He only liked dirty smelly feet. Needless to say there was no broken heart at least on my end. LOL - you literally made my day.
Yummm Posted December 6, 2015 Posted December 6, 2015 Almost like two people. Mate, when you text it's all fantasy. You are talking behind a screen, you can say and do what you want. It's not real until you meet in person.
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