is this normal?

[broken-valentine]

basically my crush put me in the friendzone a few weeks back, then out of the blue asked me on a date last night and was flirty and stuff. he now hasn't contacted me all day but been on social media? I'm confused and a little hurt is this normal or he just playing me?

[kassy]

Hard to say without more information. I'd go on the date but just see how things go. Don't mentally get ahead of yourself with this one. Eyes wide open but give it a chance at the same time

[d0nnivain]

He asked you out which is a good sign. You only went out yesterday. He is under no obligation to contact you just because he has the ability to do so. He may be playing it cool. Social media is a curse in that you can see other people's activity.

 

If you have not already sent him a text saying thanks for the date, let's do it again start there.

[preraph]

Just be aware that he is probably dating around, not just looking for one person. He was probably busy and just now getting around to taking you out. Don't sit around trying to second-guess him. It's probably pretty uncomplicated: He's busy, you're one of the girls he has taken out lately and no more. Instead what you need to do is get busy going out either with friends or other guys or staying busy finding fun things to do alone so that when you talk to him next, you can tell him the fun things you've done lately, because that makes you more interesting (no one sitting around obsessing is considered interesting, just desperate) and it also will send the message that you are not just waiting for any crumb he leaves you. I hope the date went well. Stop thinking about it and get busy doing other things. It's your best shot.

[xcupid]

If you were dating a lot of guys this wouldn't mean a thing to you. He'd be just one of many prospects. You're putting too much weight on this. Start dating other guys. Just thank him for the date and see if he responds. Then carry on.