traveler_n Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 I went out with a guy a month ago and we had amazing chemistry. One night he tried calling me and I didn't answer but I did return his call. I also texted him the next morning saying good morning and then he just disappeared for about a month. Last night I got a text from him asking me why I quit texting him. Also, he said I shouldn't have given up so easily and he was out of town. He said he was hoping I would text him. I texted him back last night saying I am did text/call him once and he didnt respond so I didn't think he was interested. I also said I missed seeing him and I told him that I wanted to meet-up again. He has yet to reply. Is he just playing games?
Redhead14 Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 I went out with a guy a month ago and we had amazing chemistry. One night he tried calling me and I didn't answer but I did return his call. I also texted him the next morning saying good morning and then he just disappeared for about a month. Last night I got a text from him asking me why I quit texting him. Also, he said I shouldn't have given up so easily and he was out of town. He said he was hoping I would text him. I texted him back last night saying I am did text/call him once and he didnt respond so I didn't think he was interested. I also said I missed seeing him and I told him that I wanted to meet-up again. He has yet to reply. Is he just playing games? he was out of town -- What, his phone only works in town? Bullsh*t. He wants to see if you're still interested after a month, which means you're desperate and would be a good backburner girl . . . don't respond or initiate contact with him anymore. 4
kismetkismet Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 That's just silly. If he wanted you to text he would have texted YOU. It's not like he sent you a string of text messages that went unanswered. He made no effort whatsoever. My guess is that he's just suddenly become bored or something with another girl did not work out and he wants to keep you on the line. Ignore. 1
Ic1 Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 My guess is that he's just suddenly become bored or something with another girl did not work out and he wants to keep you on the line. That's where I'm betting, because I'm sure that's the case.
Bobbi7 Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 Yeah, that's bs! He must have seen your text while he was "out of town." Everyone uses their phone! Sounds like he's stringing you along.
Mrin Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 Okay this is fairly straightforward and I'll bet the farm that this is what happened. Basically he was multi-dating via OLD. You were one of several women he was taking out on dates. Things got serious with one of them after your first date. He focused on her. Now it has ended, or is ending or may be ending and he's going through this list of women sending these messages to "warm things up". On its face: there is nothing wrong with that. What is wrong is how he's doing it with the line of "you never texted me" or "you should have tried harder" BS. Douche move. One other thing: being relegated to someone's "reserve" list after a date or two isn't the end of the world. Don't take it as a slight against you. But, since you responded to his "how you doin'" text and he went dark again, you should know that you're not #2 on his list. Someone above you responded and that's why he's dark again. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but move along. Delete and block. 2
xcupid Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 His list of other women ran out and you're at the end of the line. Not worth following up on him. 1
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