Girl has initiated contact last three days, but has cancelled date due to sickness

[truth_seeker]

Yes they can be excuses but they can also be legitimate reasons. If she's truly sick, I'm sure OP doesn't want her coughing and sneezing all over him. There's something going around right now. Two of my roommates and my therapist are all sick.

 

If she likes him, she will make it a point to reschedule. If there is no effort on her part to reschedule, then she is hoping OP will just disappear. Sometimes it's easier for people - I'm guilty of this - to just ignore people hoping they will get the hint.

[fmfan08]

Text her last night, she was working late but replied. I'll include timestamps.

 

[23:33] girl - Today?? Haha I put the christmas tree and I'm working until late

[00:05] me - I'll send my midget ninjas to steal your tree then. If you're feeling better, I'd like to show you my famous bowling skills... When would you be free to get together?

[00:38] girl - Hahahaha Oh no!! I'll lock the door!

[01:00] girl - I'm off on Sunday

[02:50] girl - Omg!!! How happy I am right now in my bed!!

[14:31] me - And how happy my ninjas are with their new tree!! Will get my rota tomorrow to see if I'm off Sunday.. And nah, you're missing my cuddles...

[14:36] girl - Hahaha you're right!

 

Should have waited until I get my rota tomorrow but I'll arrange on a night we're free. I'll most likely be working until 10 on Sunday. Seems promising, but we won't know until the actual date. It's easy to agree to plans, but having it happen will be the answer i'm wanting.. All learning experience