NeverGivingUp97 Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 So there's this girl that got me interested and I want to approach her in some way. Unfortunately I've been out of the game for a while (spent 2 years on a hopeless crush) so my moves can be considered rusty and stupid. I sent her a FR on Facebook which she accepted and afterwards she liked some of my pics. That got me interested soI started by liking some of her photos on FB and she liked some of mine's back and afterwards she liked every post I uploaded. We've been following each other on Instagram for a while so I expanded the "stupid and rusty" game there by liking 3 of her pics randomly. Ironically she responded after a short time by liking exactly 3 random pics of mine. Only by writing this text, I can see how stupid I may look but anyway So what do you figure? Which should be my next move? Thank you!
xUnknown Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 Do you know her in person? Can you approach her face to face and just start a conversation? If you can't approach her or bump into her somewhere, shoot her a FB message and start a conversation. If you don't do something soon she'll get bored of liking pics for attention. 1
LoveRefreshed Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 Your next step should have been your first step. Ask her, in person, to go on a date. You sent a request to be in the friend zone. (Does it exist? Alas, I don't know. I leave first) Not cool Jimmy-Steve. Liking photos means dick. Currently, I've been with my gf for 3 months, though the first month was just NSA fun- it's developed. In this time, I've liked exactly 0 photos and posts on facebook. She has liked like 2 of my things, and that is that. Facebook is not a tool for real relationship development.
Author NeverGivingUp97 Posted December 2, 2015 Author Posted December 2, 2015 Do you know her in person? Can you approach her face to face and just start a conversation? If you can't approach her or bump into her somewhere, shoot her a FB message and start a conversation. If you don't do something soon she'll get bored of liking pics for attention. Well we've seen each other only once (That was 4-5 years ago) as she was one of my sister's friends but apart from this "meeting". I guess that I'll try to send her a message on FB. Just looking for the right chance to do so, otherwise I'll probably go with the flow and take the courage to send her a message without any particular reason. Thanks Your next step should have been your first step. Ask her, in person, to go on a date. You sent a request to be in the friend zone. (Does it exist? Alas, I don't know. I leave first) Not cool Jimmy-Steve. Liking photos means dick. Currently, I've been with my gf for 3 months, though the first month was just NSA fun- it's developed. In this time, I've liked exactly 0 photos and posts on facebook. She has liked like 2 of my things, and that is that. Facebook is not a tool for real relationship development. I know that, that's why I felt stupid writing this. I'll take the courage and send her a message with the intention of asking her out as I mentioned. Thanks
Versacehottie Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 Yeah show her you have real game by doing something more personal. Direct message, my friend. From there get her number, text and call and most importantly ask her out. Build on whatever is in the pics you are liking for convo. for example, if she is at a place or restaurant or concert or some activity with friends in the stuff you are liking than easy peasy--just ask some questions about that and where else she likes to go, what you like to do AND then something new you've heard about that you want to check out OR if she acts interested in something you said you have been to offer to take her to that. THAT'S how you don't spend 2 years on a hopeless crush (sorry you did btw). If her stuff is more artistic pics oriented than tell her you like what she shoots and you should hang out some time to go get some good pics together. If she does a lot of quotes, offer to go for coffee or drinks or dinner, she clearly likes conversation, thoughts and talk. You are not rusty if you are listening. You're in luck for following her on those social media because they will give you some clues to "start" the conversation. Let it flow. Don't stay stuck liking on social media. Aim to have your own bonds as soon as possible. Good luck 1
Author NeverGivingUp97 Posted December 2, 2015 Author Posted December 2, 2015 Yeah show her you have real game by doing something more personal. Direct message, my friend. From there get her number, text and call and most importantly ask her out. Build on whatever is in the pics you are liking for convo. for example, if she is at a place or restaurant or concert or some activity with friends in the stuff you are liking than easy peasy--just ask some questions about that and where else she likes to go, what you like to do AND then something new you've heard about that you want to check out OR if she acts interested in something you said you have been to offer to take her to that. THAT'S how you don't spend 2 years on a hopeless crush (sorry you did btw). If her stuff is more artistic pics oriented than tell her you like what she shoots and you should hang out some time to go get some good pics together. If she does a lot of quotes, offer to go for coffee or drinks or dinner, she clearly likes conversation, thoughts and talk. You are not rusty if you are listening. You're in luck for following her on those social media because they will give you some clues to "start" the conversation. Let it flow. Don't stay stuck liking on social media. Aim to have your own bonds as soon as possible. Good luck This is just helped me immensely! I think I've come up with some ideas now. Thank you! 1
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