geronimo Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 So I got a unknown number call yesterday while I was out with some friend and it was a girl who answered pretty much playing a prank on me saying things like I gave her my number and this and that, I knew it was my ex's friend and that they were calling from her phone. I didn't really play along with it much, just kept it going for a little bit and then ended it cuz I was with friends. It bothered me tho that my ex is doing this **** so I ended up sending her a text last night saying not to give out my number/prank call me and that I knew it was her and would have called her out on it but I was with someone thats why I didn't. I expected her to reply but she pretty much just ignored me completely, I know I shouldn't let this bother me and should just leave it where it is, but I want to call her and confront her about it. Should I do it, what are your thoughts?
Toodaloo Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 Leave it. Don't engage. If it happens again. Just say "sorry no idea who you are" and hang up. Ignore it. 3
mightycpa Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 Me and Toodles see almost eye-to-eye: Leave it. Don't engage. If it happens again, just say "are you the girl I banged last night? I'm so glad you called, what's your name again?" then, holding the phone away from your mouth say "Shut up guys, it's that girl I did last night!" (even if there's nobody in the room), return to the phone and say "You were ****ing hot, I've been thinking about it all day. What was your favorite part?" and then wait for her to hang up. I think it's always good to give the people what they want, and people who do this, this is what they want to hear. Until then, ignore it. 2
Ic1 Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 (edited) Option 1: If it happens again, block every number that calls with such intentions and bring law enforcement if it continues to a ridiculous level. (Have reports filed). Option 2: Answer professionally or with some foreign accent and pretend to be a scam. "Thanks for calling Credit Report Helpers today! With only your SSN#, Discover or Visa card, and billing address, we can improve your credit score!" Edited December 2, 2015 by Ic1
Author geronimo Posted December 2, 2015 Author Posted December 2, 2015 LOL Mighty that's hilarious I think I might do that if it happens again. Thanks guys for your help. Ic1 I wouldn't file anything against her cuz I don't really have any animosity towards her but if it ever gets to a point where it's insanely annoying I may look into that.
Silver_star Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 I think you did the right thing with not playing into her childishness. Telling her not to give out your number. Now that she has not responded I hope she gets the message that it was a foolish thing to do. If I was her I would feel like an absolute moron for doing that. If it happens again, you can't win in being childish back and pretending your sleeping with randoms on the side. I think it would only encourage a dialogue, and not a good one. Also, I usually don't answer blocked numbers that come up on my phone, because if it is that important they will leave a message, and if not they will get the hint and stop calling. 1
mightycpa Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 If it happens again, only one thing's for sure. You can't win with this woman unless you leave her in the dust. 1
Toodaloo Posted December 3, 2015 Posted December 3, 2015 If it happens again, only one thing's for sure. You can't win with this woman unless you leave her in the dust. CPA if he starts playing her games she is getting attention. Best way is complete and utter disdain. Trust me. I have seen these silly girls trying to get attention and when the guys just look at them with WTF on their face, say nothing and walk away it hurts them a whole lot more than a row. Vice versa too. 1
PegNosePete Posted December 3, 2015 Posted December 3, 2015 (edited) If it happens again, just say "are you the girl I banged last night? Even better - "which of those girls I banged last night are you, again?" But yeah, that's probably best left as an internal joke than actually said if it happens again. Best to just hang up. Edited December 3, 2015 by PegNosePete
Author geronimo Posted December 4, 2015 Author Posted December 4, 2015 Yeah I agree with her there is no winning so just not playing into it is the best way to deal with it. I hate this happening and just don't see the point of what she's trying to do. We had a pretty solid relationship and were together for 5 f*cking years, and then she leaves me for someone else, not sure if they're still together, probably are but whatever, I"m finally starting to let it go and she just f*cks everything up as if she has some sick 6th sense that she is losing her "spell" over me.
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