ptopes Posted December 1, 2015 Posted December 1, 2015 I feel so wrong for doing it, but I checked my boyfriends phone and saw multiple sex sites and a dating site in his history. I clicked on the profile and the info on the profile matched my boyfriends information. There were a few messages in the inbox, but as far as I could see, he didn't respond to them. I feel devastated because I don't know how I can confront him about it without feeling terrible for snooping in his phone. Any advice? Is this worth confronting him for? Thanks.
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2015 Posted December 1, 2015 Sadly when you feel compelled to snoop, you often find something. I'll confess to the snooping & talk about the dating site. His reaction will tell you what you need to know about continuing.
central Posted December 1, 2015 Posted December 1, 2015 You don't say how long you've been exclusive or dating. Because if you're not exclusive, he has done nothing wrong - but you have by snooping.
Samhain Posted December 1, 2015 Posted December 1, 2015 Be sure that the "history" was during the time you were together and not before you met, first. There is no way to dance around the fact you snooped so just straight up tell him I snooped and this is what I found.. Often someone guilty will put more focus on the fact their partner "snooped" than the fact they found something nefarious. So keep the focus on what you found during your talk with him and then deal with the "snooping" aspect afterward. 1
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