loveflower Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 I'm glad that you are taking my opinion. I think she'll make you happy and there's a lot of haters out there who are just jealous. Don't let them bring you down Has it ever occurred to you some people grew up with traditional values and high moral standards will just naturally got turned off by sugar baby and sleeping around those kind of things? some people are more mentally puritanical?
Gloria25 Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 Has it ever occurred to you some people grew up with traditional values and high moral standards will just naturally got turned off by sugar baby and sleeping around those kind of things? some people are more mentally puritanical? That was her past and now she's matured and that's why she wants to be with the OP. If she was a golddigger, the OP wouldn't even be on her radar. And remember, who are we to call her a sugar baby just because of the age gaps and the guy spending money on her? She was engaged to him...that says a lot. He wasn't some guy who pays to spend escort time with her. They were in a committed RL.
Gloria25 Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 because she was not physically and mentally attracted to him? personally, no amount of money could make me being physically intimate with someone I am not physically attracted...well, maybe except if I didn't I am going to die. Lots of women do this already and for ages....many of them bear the title of "wife" and/or "mother". Most women get horny for what a man can provide them with...I don't cuz I have my own stuff and am not in search for a "sperm donor". When I'm in a RL it's cuz I want "him" - not what he can "do" for me.
loveflower Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 That was her past and now she's matured and that's why she wants to be with the OP. If she was a golddigger, the OP wouldn't even be on her radar. And remember, who are we to call her a sugar baby just because of the age gaps and the guy spending money on her? She was engaged to him...that says a lot. He wasn't some guy who pays to spend escort time with her. They were in a committed RL. Well, WHY was she in that relationship? If she wasn't, then why OP is here questioning that? I am not questioning if she is a changed person. I don't know. Only OP can answer that. I am just questioning the nature of that relationship.
loveflower Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 Lots of women do this already and for ages....many of them bear the title of "wife" and/or "mother". Most women get horny for what a man can provide them with...I don't cuz I have my own stuff and am not in search for a "sperm donor". When I'm in a RL it's cuz I want "him" - not what he can "do" for me. so you are saying you are different than her?
Author abroham Posted December 2, 2015 Author Posted December 2, 2015 Well, WHY was she in that relationship? If she wasn't, then why OP is here questioning that? I am not questioning if she is a changed person. I don't know. Only OP can answer that. I am just questioning the nature of that relationship. All I did was lay out the facts and wanted honest feedback in return. I like this girl but do not want to make a mistake and end up hurt because I simply overlooked signs. I'm on here because I don't want my friends and family to prejudge her & you guys are unbiased and honest. I never said she was a sugar baby I simply explained a situation. I just wanted to hear what you all felt once I laid things out. FACTS ARE FACTS, DO WHAT YOU WANT WITH THEM AS LONG AS YOU TAKE OUT THE TRUTH IN THE END. I just want to be smart and fair here, that's all.
MidwestUSA Posted December 2, 2015 Posted December 2, 2015 I'm assuming you're talking about this girl? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/general/general-relationship-discussion/547094-what-do-i-do You admit you had/have a huge issue with her past. Have you somehow worked through it?
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