sugarlessgirl01 Posted December 1, 2015 Posted December 1, 2015 I told a guy I liked him but only because I wanted to get it over and done with, get a solid 'no' and then move on from him. I expected to be rejected because he metioned before he was interested in another girl. But things didn't go the way I thought they would and he ended up accepting me and said he wanted to try dating me. I'm confused that he was interested in someone yet chose to date me. Under normal circumstances I would think he was playing with me but we've been friends for a few years now and I guess you can say I trust his character enough that I think he wouldn't screw around with a friend. Thoughts?
Scarlett.O'hara Posted December 1, 2015 Posted December 1, 2015 Maybe you aren't giving yourself enough credit. He likes you enough to give it a shot. I understand your hesitation because of the other girl, but just give things a chance. Just take it slow, and don't rush things. In time you will see how genuine he is, one way or the other. Try to relax and enjoy it. You never know unless you try.
kassy Posted December 1, 2015 Posted December 1, 2015 He never have thought you'd be interested in him so gave up on the idea ages ago since you have been friends for a while. I'd just give it a try... I mean that's what you really want right? As already said just take it slow
Author sugarlessgirl01 Posted December 1, 2015 Author Posted December 1, 2015 He never have thought you'd be interested in him so gave up on the idea ages ago since you have been friends for a while. I'd just give it a try... I mean that's what you really want right? As already said just take it slow Maybe you aren't giving yourself enough credit. He likes you enough to give it a shot. I understand your hesitation because of the other girl, but just give things a chance. Just take it slow, and don't rush things. In time you will see how genuine he is, one way or the other. Try to relax and enjoy it. You never know unless you try. Thanks, I think this is about the only positive advice I've heard since I've consulted anyone. Everyone keeps telling me that he's probably just settling with me until he finds someone he fancies and it depresses me not in that he might possibly be just toying with me but that being his friend for so long and I don't understand his character well enough.
Zippy2000 Posted December 1, 2015 Posted December 1, 2015 Thanks, I think this is about the only positive advice I've heard since I've consulted anyone. Everyone keeps telling me that he's probably just settling with me until he finds someone he fancies and it depresses me not in that he might possibly be just toying with me but that being his friend for so long and I don't understand his character well enough. Yeah, I noticed that with people on here. They seem to dimiss everything and reject second chances. Replies should be professiona nd not too subjective. Your friend like you enough for a change so why not go with the flow and take notice of his actions. People do fall in love and at different paces. Some slower and some faster. Just give it time and see how it pans out in say 6 months or so. If he`s good and after say anotehr 6 months he`s still trying to romance you then you can take it from there.
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