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Recently broken up. Seeing a male friend of the ex


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Hey.

So basically about a month ago I broke up with my now ex. We havent been getting along for a while and we were both unShould I or months before. The break odd as we cared for each other but didn't love one another any more since we became more like friends.

 

To cut to the chase we were seperated and a few days later a friend of the ex contacted me. We got on really well and just seemed to spark off each other. He didnt know about the breakup at the time.

 

Since then he calls me in an evening. Texts all day. And spends time with me in between.

 

Truth is that I don't know if its too soon or if the situation with the ex distanced me before it was ended. Who knows

 

I don't know what to do. I like him so much but the ex is still very local and it wouldn't be long until he worked it out. Should I break it off. Enjoy it or just stop over thinking??

Thank you for reading xx

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Are they very close friends or merely acquaintances?

 

I think it should be okay. My friend's sister dated and ended up marrying and having children with a friend of her ex. Although I live in a small town and it's just inevitable that a guy you date may know of an ex of yours.

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In some situations this could be playing with fire.

In some situations this is an all smiles no big deal...

There's 4 guys on this planet that I will fully support doing whatever he wants with any of my ex's. But other than that I would rather not be around it in most cases.

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