elly key Posted November 30, 2015 Posted November 30, 2015 My relationship was perfect. It was LDR. We met online living in different countries across the ocean. We did love each other. We were planning to get married next year. Everything was so good until this June when he got promoted and became busy at work. He just dumped me within 2 days saying that he still loved me but didn't have time for the relationship. I was crashed. My best friend, the person who said prayers to God being grateful to meet me, was a complete stranger. He didn't care about my feelings at all. He just gave in when faced an issue. He promised to love me forever but left me like something that was on his way to the carrier. Then things got worse. I texted him with no luck. A week more he texted me with I miss you text. I responded. Shouldn't have to. In a week more he joined a dating site we met at again. I was crashed againd and texted him that he couldn't have hurt me more. He didn't answer. All that time I tried to date guys, but none of them could make me interested even trying very hard. So I texted him again wishing him happiness. Heresponded immediately and was glad to talk to me. He said he missed me. We agreed to talk againg, but that didn't happen from his side and I got furious. I told him bad things. I never was like that. But to be honest I don't regret of that. I was hurt by the person who was supposed to protect me from any hurt in my life. He responded immediately saying that he was working and I had no right to act like that. We had an argument but agreed to have a fresh start again in a few days. In a few days he said that he wants to have a fresh start, but I have to be understanding that he will be dating other girls. That was over. I didn't get furious this time. I just stopped talking to him. The sad thing was that I loved him. I understood that everything I did was wrong. I decided to try no contact. I extended it to 3 months as I know him and he still holded a grudge for me for what I said. Three months expired last weekend. I texted him with a good message. Like really good. And he responded immediately. He was very glad to talk to me. I felt it for sure. We had a super short conversation and he sent me "our" exclusive emojiis. I definitely received a positive response and ended the conversation. I left one message unresponded. It said that he was praying for me as my mom is in the hospital now. I responded the next day and sent him "remember-the-good-time" message. He never answered. It was yesterday and he is still silent but is online texting with somebody else (usually he is offline). Exactly the same situation like 3 months ago. That's cruel. He does't care about my feeling at all. I don't understand why men do this? You gotta know me. I'm super cool. And funny. And pretty. I'm like a girl from a good romantic comedy. And we had such a good relationship. How come he did that then and doing this now? It's disrespectful and humiliating. I don't think I'm going to text him again. Ever. I'm tired. And disappointed. About him, about relationships in general. That's the end of such a good story. I'm so upset. Thank you for listening. I know that you are tired of reading. I just needed to tell all that. Wish you all stuff that matter never to be ending.
Scarlett.O'hara Posted December 4, 2015 Posted December 4, 2015 I'm so sorry you are hurting. I think you are doing the right thing going no contact to help you move on. He is clearly involved with other women now. He isn't worthy of your affection anymore.
Author elly key Posted December 5, 2015 Author Posted December 5, 2015 I'm so sorry you are hurting. I think you are doing the right thing going no contact to help you move on. He is clearly involved with other women now. He isn't worthy of your affection anymore. Thank you for support, Scarlett.O'hara. I'm trying not to show my friends and close people what I am experiencing now. Everybody loves funny Elly. Online is the only place where I can be a downie.
NoLeafClover Posted December 5, 2015 Posted December 5, 2015 Sounds like he's screwing someone else and not paying any attention to you...be strong and don't go back. Pls take care of yourself.
Author elly key Posted December 5, 2015 Author Posted December 5, 2015 Sounds like he's screwing someone else and not paying any attention to you...be strong and don't go back. Pls take care of yourself. I will. Thank you.
Author elly key Posted December 12, 2015 Author Posted December 12, 2015 My relationship was perfect. It was LDR. We met online living in different countries across the ocean. We did love each other. We were planning to get married next year. Everything was so good until this June when he got promoted and became busy at work. He just dumped me within 2 days saying that he still loved me but didn't have time for the relationship. I was crashed. My best friend, the person who said prayers to God being grateful to meet me, was a complete stranger. He didn't care about my feelings at all. He just gave in when faced an issue. He promised to love me forever but left me like something that was on his way to the carrier. Then things got worse. I texted him with no luck. A week more he texted me with I miss you text. I responded. Shouldn't have to. In a week more he joined a dating site we met at again. I was crashed againd and texted him that he couldn't have hurt me more. He didn't answer. All that time I tried to date guys, but none of them could make me interested even trying very hard. So I texted him again wishing him happiness. Heresponded immediately and was glad to talk to me. He said he missed me. We agreed to talk againg, but that didn't happen from his side and I got furious. I told him bad things. I never was like that. But to be honest I don't regret of that. I was hurt by the person who was supposed to protect me from any hurt in my life. He responded immediately saying that he was working and I had no right to act like that. We had an argument but agreed to have a fresh start again in a few days. In a few days he said that he wants to have a fresh start, but I have to be understanding that he will be dating other girls. That was over. I didn't get furious this time. I just stopped talking to him. The sad thing was that I loved him. I understood that everything I did was wrong. I decided to try no contact. I extended it to 3 months as I know him and he still holded a grudge for me for what I said. Three months expired last weekend. I texted him with a good message. Like really good. And he responded immediately. He was very glad to talk to me. I felt it for sure. We had a super short conversation and he sent me "our" exclusive emojiis. I definitely received a positive response and ended the conversation. I left one message unresponded. It said that he was praying for me as my mom is in the hospital now. I responded the next day and sent him "remember-the-good-time" message. He never answered. It was yesterday and he is still silent but is online texting with somebody else (usually he is offline). Exactly the same situation like 3 months ago. That's cruel. He does't care about my feeling at all. I don't understand why men do this? You gotta know me. I'm super cool. And funny. And pretty. I'm like a girl from a good romantic comedy. And we had such a good relationship. How come he did that then and doing this now? It's disrespectful and humiliating. I don't think I'm going to text him again. Ever. I'm tired. And disappointed. About him, about relationships in general. That's the end of such a good story. I'm so upset. Thank you for listening. I know that you are tired of reading. I just needed to tell all that. Wish you all stuff that matter never to be ending. Just a follow-up. He texted me saying he was missing all this time and wanted to start talking again. We were talking like good old friends that are still supportive and understanding. But then nothing happened. I texted him thinking we were fine, but he didn't respond. I said good bye to him for good. He didn't even say sorry for hurting my feelings. He never said sorry. That is painful, but it made me realize that the man I loved is weak and pathetic. It's not worth it at all.
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