guy93 Posted November 30, 2015 Posted November 30, 2015 If somebody does not invite you to celebrate New Years Eve, but wants to meet up in Christmas week instead - is this a way of saying back off?
Samhain Posted November 30, 2015 Posted November 30, 2015 Not necessarily. I would consider Christmas time a lot more personal as it's generally celebrated with close family and/or friends. I'm not sure about where you live but here if you are going out to celebrate New Years Eve you need tickets to almost all places (and they are pretty expensive too) so perhaps they already have some arrangement for NYE or maybe they assume you do. I'd consider somebody wanting to see me over the Christmas period as a good sign, as that week for most people is pretty hectic.
emerald86 Posted December 3, 2015 Posted December 3, 2015 It's different for everyone. I generally see Christmas as time spent with family, and New Years Eve as time spent with friends. That's how it is for me, at least. Both are considered important though, so it's great that this person chose the week of Christmas to spend time with you!
d0nnivain Posted December 3, 2015 Posted December 3, 2015 No. When somebody wants to spend any time with you between thanksgiving & New Year's it shows you are important to them. It's such a hectic time of year. All the non-essentials have to go. 1
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