rmo2380 Posted May 28, 2005 Posted May 28, 2005 Okay heres my situation. I have been broken up with my ex for two monthes. She dumped me after a two year relationship because she didnt know if I was right for her. For the first month, I did everything wrong, as I begged and pleaded for her to come back to me because she meant everything to me. I probably sounded pathetic in the first month and probably pushed her away. Than the second month I did no contact. And at first it was hard to do but I got used it. I shouldnt say I did no contact completely but when she would email me or call me I would answer but I kept it really short and didnt go into details of my feelings for her. Well last night she wrote me an email because she had heard from a mutual friend that I been hanging out with some friends. One of the friends that hangs out with us is a girl. And she always knew about this friend that was a woman and had no problem with her the whole time we are together. Well she said in her email that she hoped I had a great weekend and said that I bet my friend who is just strictly a friend that is a woman is a lot happier now because she she has me all to herself. So my question is what does that suppose to mean. Usually she still tells me she loves me and all that in emails and phone calls. And after she said that she ended her email. Am I reading into this too much? Whats yalls advice if I may ask.
Fallen_Angel Posted May 28, 2005 Posted May 28, 2005 I wouldn't read anything into it. Perhaps she might feel a twinge of something knowing you might be with this girl, but if your friendship with her was not an issue during the relationship, it's not suddenly going to matter now. If she's ending e-mails & phone calls with the three magic words, I get the impression she still wants you to hang around. You don't deserve that, you know. You should continue with NC just how you were; if she does contact you, and you feel the need to respond, keep it short and to the point. If she does come to her senses, she'll know where to find you, right? It's not as though you're changing your address or whatever. But don't focus your time and energy on something that may or may not happen. Focus on making yourself better so that you make it through this a stronger person and more prepared for the next thing that comes along.
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