jrode23 Posted November 30, 2015 Posted November 30, 2015 (edited) One of my ex's friends blocked me a week after my ex broke up with me because I really wouldn't leave it be. This was one of her friends whom I had only met on four occasions yet, for some reasons, decided to go to when my ex broke up with me. This friend of hers basically called me crazy and told me to leave her, and my ex, alone. I really don't think I acted crazy, but from when she said that, I haven't said a word to her (or any of my ex's friends) or my ex. I have started to move on and look after myself, but somehow this long weekend, I noticed that this friend who was so adamant that I was crazy, unblocked me from Facebook. I realized that it is ultimately nothing, my ex isn't coming back, and this is just making me wonder even more. But for what reason(s) would this friend unblock me? She basically told me, when I sought her support, that she hardly knew me and obviously wasn't going to side with me. What would make a person say that and, a month and a half later, unblock that same person? It's not like these stauses are going on Facebook or I'm trying to pull something over. I Just find it all very good. Hope you enjoyed the holiday! Edited November 30, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator identifiable information removed. ~T
quankanne Posted November 30, 2015 Posted November 30, 2015 sounds like she's testing you to see if you respond? Might just be a smart idea to remove her as a friend, and ignore all temptation, because I really don't see anything good coming out of this ... 1
Blanco Posted November 30, 2015 Posted November 30, 2015 But for what reason(s) would this friend unblock me? She basically told me, when I sought her support, that she hardly knew me and obviously wasn't going to side with me. What would make a person say that and, a month and a half later, unblock that same person? I'd say the text in bold is your likely answer. She probably figures everything has blown over by now, and since she has no real emotional investment in you, there's no need to have you blocked. Personally, I would have deleted her when she made it clear that she's not on your side. She was a "friend" by proxy. I never keep my ex's friends on there unless we were actually friends beforehand.
Author jrode23 Posted November 30, 2015 Author Posted November 30, 2015 When someone blocks you on Facebook, they are also removed from your friends list. I can't even recall how I stumbled upon her not having me blocked anymore, but I noticed it yesterday, as I was able to see that she existed on Facebook instead of getting a page error. I really have no interest in contacting her (or my ex), as I'm starting to do well. At the same time, I find it curious. And I realize that just may be me thinking that, but when someone tells you that you are crazy and that they have only met you a few times, what would prompt that same person to suddenly, consciously, go and unblock you? Like, obviously this person had to have had me in mind to actually unblock me. And, given the holiday, I can't help but think she was hanging out with my ex. Again, I know my ex isn't coming back, but at the same time, it does peak curiosity.
Wewon Posted November 30, 2015 Posted November 30, 2015 I would simply block them all. Remove all temptation.. For a guy, break ups can be mine fields, ripe with opportunities for you to be pegged as some threat. She's already called you 'crazy', I would assume that she's giving me some rope to see if I hang myself.
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