OCCDAVE Posted May 28, 2005 Posted May 28, 2005 This girl i was talking to is seeing someone and said it doesn't hurt having more friends which we can be and gave me her number.My question is she just feeling sorry for me
HotCaliGirl Posted May 28, 2005 Posted May 28, 2005 Originally posted by OCCDAVE My question is she just feeling sorry for me Yea, she was just trying to be polite. I don't think you should call her.
Author OCCDAVE Posted May 28, 2005 Author Posted May 28, 2005 What makes you think that maybe she just wants to be friends or no cause otherwise why give me her number
sarah12 Posted May 28, 2005 Posted May 28, 2005 Originally posted by OCCDAVE What makes you think that maybe she just wants to be friends or no cause otherwise why give me her number Because she's giving you a consolation prize: the option to be friends with her since she doesn't want a relationship with you.
Author OCCDAVE Posted May 28, 2005 Author Posted May 28, 2005 Originally posted by sarah12 Because she's giving you a consolation prize: the option to be friends with her since she doesn't want a relationship with you. true but we were really never going out since we just started talking a few weeks ago.Just wondering wouldn't being a friend be good cause it could lead to something or that's not likely when someone is seeing someone else
wakamiya Posted May 28, 2005 Posted May 28, 2005 I would call but not take her too seriously.. there's that quote "be open to everything and anything because you never know" while she could be trying to turn you down nicely, there's no reason you guys can't be friends if you've been talking for a few weeks now. also, if she said "it won't hurt to have more friends" It would mean you have somewhat of a shot, right? I'd say that to some guy I thought was interesting (and while dating)...
sarah12 Posted May 28, 2005 Posted May 28, 2005 Originally posted by OCCDAVE Just wondering wouldn't being a friend be good cause it could lead to something? A girl wouldn't use the 'friend' word if she wanted something more to happen. She would say, 'we should keep in touch.' or that's not likely when someone is seeing someone else It's not likely when the girl is seeing someone else.
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