Maxvin Posted November 28, 2015 Posted November 28, 2015 My ex and I were together for almost 6 months. She was away from her country and came here for study. We were 24/7 together. I ditched many of my friends, same as her. We were spending alot time together because she was going back to her country for couple of months. She was supposed to come back. She always were promissing me that she will come back. We loved each other so much and crying all the time as she was leaving. Then she left. It was so hard for me to not being with her. I found a big hole in my life. So our relationship became long distance. But I was so emotional as I was the one who being here with all the memories. She left to new environment new people and her families. So she had much more fun than me. I became needy and so insecure. She always were trying to assure me that she will come back. I couldn't go there as I had study and work and she couldn't come back soon because she wanted to work and get some money before that. Anyway I had become so controling. For example when she went clubbing with her friends that I didn't know until late. She was going out alot because she reunion her friends again. I was so insecure about that and I'm so regret now. After awhile obviously she start to change and told me she has changed her mind to come back. She brought up breaking up. And we did. I have tried to convince her couple times but she said we are too different and it is never going to work. Deep down I know it's very hard to make it work. But she was always the one who said we shouldn't give up and it's working if we want to. She always talked about future. We had alot of plans. Our break up was 3 months ago and I'm still thinking about her alot. I became so alone. I contacted her in first month but she has been changed alot. She became so mean. She said I annoyed her by my controlling habit and she's done with that. She even didn't wish my birthday. Couple weeks ago I contacted her so cool. We were chatting for a week or so. Then I figured out she has already found someone else. Actually she moved on to her ex of 4 years ago. it hurted alot. Then I blocked her in fc. I don't know if I should tell her that I blocked her to hell me to move on or something like that? I really want to contact her. I feel I can't find someone like her again. I lost my confidence so bad. I don't know if I should contact her and leave a door open. She used to love me so much I can't believe that she moved on that fast with another guy. I don't know if there is any hope. But again it's so hard to make that relationship work but she was always saying it worth it and we shouldn't give up.
mightycpa Posted November 28, 2015 Posted November 28, 2015 Aw Max, Sometimes, we fall for the new girl because she's so different than the people you're used to and it's new and exciting. Here's some things you need to consider: It shouldn't be difficult or a lot of work to be with someone you love. It should be easy. Sometimes, it's too much work and you should give up. Especially when you're young. You had a lot more fun with her when she was here than when she was away. Girlfriends here are a lot better than girlfriends there. Especially when you're young. Just because they talk about the future doesn't mean that they mean it. It's just talk until it becomes action. Don't believe too early. Especially when you're young. It will be harder in the short term, but a lot easier in the long term if you don't contact her than if you continue to contact her. Don't be weak. Especially when you're young. Just because they loved you yesterday doesn't mean they will love you today. Especially when you're young. You will find love again. Especially when you're young.
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