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I only see this guy sometimes at school, so I don't know his full name yet - but I am definitely gonna figure it out! :D

 

This guy make you nervous to the point you would avoid him?

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I disagree... Most guys hate facebook and social media...

 

She could FB friend request him...

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This guy make you nervous to the point you would avoid him?

I don't know why I don't know his full name yet.

He started there a month ago, and I simply haven't got a chance to figure out his name, since I don't know exactly what program he studies at.

He also seems to have classes at very different places than I have, since I usually see him where I don't usually study myself.

 

I am gonna try and chat with him on Monday, I just need to gather some courage. :D

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I don't know why I don't know his full name yet.

He started there a month ago, and I simply haven't got a chance to figure out his name, since I don't know exactly what program he studies at.

He also seems to have classes at very different places than I have, since I usually see him where I don't usually study myself.

 

I am gonna try and chat with him on Monday, I just need to gather some courage. :D

 

I'm somewhat, okay, I'm interested in a younger woman and for a couple of weeks was checking me out, following me. Now she stopped and stares. I try to approach but she runs away. Just curious from a younger woman's perspective, she still interested?

 

I'm used to women breaking the ice not me doing it.

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If he's a good looking as you're saying he's probably running threw the entire school

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If he's a good looking as you're saying he's probably running threw the entire school

What do you mean by that? :p

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he is maybe 6'4 with a body like a Greek god or something, and with a truly beautiful face and kind, innocent eyes - and he also seems very cute and likeable as a person as well.

That happens to be exactly my personal taste when it comes to guys,

 

I think you'll discover that will be nearly everyone's personal taste when it comes to guys, even other guys. :laugh: The bottom line is this.....there will be plenty of girls ready to go and chat to him. Why would he chase you when you don't give any obvious signs of interest? Make yourself known and then live in terror of him not choosing you. It's just the way it goes with very attractive people.

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Just a quick thought, but if he sports a particular style of clothing and you can match the feminine equivalent of that, try doing it -- mirroring his apparent taste may draw his attention.

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I think you'll discover that will be nearly everyone's personal taste when it comes to guys, even other guys. :laugh: The bottom line is this.....there will be plenty of girls ready to go and chat to him. Why would he chase you when you don't give any obvious signs of interest? Make yourself known and then live in terror of him not choosing you. It's just the way it goes with very attractive people.

Yes, I am preparing for Monday, haha. :o:p

 

One of the trickiest things about this guy is that it feels like he will be really hard to "keep" - I am guessing that since he gets approached so often and so many girls flirt with him, he might dump me after just a few days for someone else.

But I guess I shouldn't worry too much about that right now.

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What are you looking forward to ? Hot sex ? Is that all ? Then you might get to have him ( he wouldn't mind either ). It would be a short term fling.

 

If you are looking for more than that , you should want to start to know him on a level outside bedroom.

 

What does he want ? I guess you should know that as well :laugh:

 

Just because he gets approached all the time or has a hot body , doesn't mean he is having a romp all the time. He could be looking for a woman who stimulates his mind. Get to know him. Or just have a short fling because that's where your body is demanding at the moment.

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What are you looking forward to ? Hot sex ? Is that all ? Then you might get to have him ( he wouldn't mind either ). It would be a short term fling.

 

If you are looking for more than that , you should want to start to know him on a level outside bedroom.

 

What does he want ? I guess you should know that as well :laugh:

 

Just because he gets approached all the time or has a hot body , doesn't mean he is having a romp all the time. He could be looking for a woman who stimulates his mind. Get to know him. Or just have a short fling because that's where your body is demanding at the moment.

Well, I don't know him yet, but having sex with him is certainly a major goal. :p

And if I don't develop a serious interest for him as a person then I am most definitely still gonna want to have sex with him.

 

I guess my main goal at the moment is to have him for myself for a while and get a chance to kiss him, lol.

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That's a long version of short fling :D

 

No man would reject a woman for no strings sex !

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I guess my main goal at the moment is to have him for myself for a while and get a chance to kiss him, lol.

 

If that's your goal, and you're a pretty girl, it should happen. Just keep in mind that he'll only look at you as a fling material, and word might get around school that's what you're all about.

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Here's a tip you may or may not have thought of before: Ignore him.

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Haha, I have had these ideas a couple times that I could maybe use cleavage and wear a skirt that's a bit above my knees, and then stand somewhere near him and "show off" to him in a way that looks natural (like stretch back a bit and fix my hair so that he can check out my breasts or something like that). :p

I am not sure if this is a good idea, but maybe it will make him as physically attracted to me as possible, that would be a plus. :p

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Here's a tip you may or may not have thought of before: Ignore him.

 

Do this if you don't actually want anything to do with him ;)

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Word got around school that that's what I was all about... Not all that bad of a deal really. Worked out well for me anyways.

 

If a girl is not worried about her bring just another one of those who he has bedded, then yes, it's a good deal

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Here's a tip you may or may not have thought of before: Ignore him.

 

This is interesting. So what you're saying is she gets his attention by being near him, staring at him, but keeps away from him, so this will trigger something in his head to suddenly chase her?

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If a girl is not worried about her bring just another one of those who he has bedded, then yes, it's a good deal

 

Well you probably see that as a negative, where others would see that as a positive.

I don't care that if im "just another" guy a girl has been in bed with. Going by Mariahs attraction being mostly physical, I don't think it would be all that disappointing for her if she was "just another" girl this guys has been with. She wants to hook up with him at the very least. So yes, in this case, reputation or not, getting in bed is with him is a good deal for her. Assuming they're responsible about it...

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Well you probably see that as a negative, where others would see that as a positive.

I don't care that if im "just another" guy a girl has been in bed with. Going by Mariahs attraction being mostly physical, I don't think it would be all that disappointing for her if she was "just another" girl this guys has been with. She wants to hook up with him at the very least. So yes, in this case, reputation or not, getting in bed is with him is a good deal for her. Assuming they're responsible about it...

Yep, I guess I might as well admit that at the moment my main goal is to make out with him and have a lot of sex with him. :p

Not sure if it's normal to feel that way to someone you have never talked to before, but that's how I feel.

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I'm more interested in that "ignoring tactic" someone else mentioned. Does that really work? I would get frustrated with a game like that.

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Yep, I guess I might as well admit that at the moment my main goal is to make out with him and have a lot of sex with him. :p

Not sure if it's normal to feel that way to someone you have never talked to before, but that's how I feel.

 

It's VERY NORMAL...

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Yep, I guess I might as well admit that at the moment my main goal is to make out with him and have a lot of sex with him. :p

Not sure if it's normal to feel that way to someone you have never talked to before, but that's how I feel.

You don't need to talk to anyone to have hot sex ! Many guys keep sex and tell separate. Those who want to talk , will keep sex for later once the relationship builds. If sec is the front runner, then you are asking for hook up not relationship.

 

 

Since your only motive is sex, I don't get what's the problem ?

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I'm more interested in that "ignoring tactic" someone else mentioned. Does that really work? I would get frustrated with a game like that.

 

It does and it doesn't... It's not as effective as just doing the work yourself. But in the right circumstances, if you can catch a girls attention in the right way and appear interesting, then yeah, the conservative yet confident approach is sometimes effective... Not my style though. Which is a good thing, only room for one Alpha lion in a den at a time.... lol jk

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Question OP : what if this guy is not into sleeping around and rather wants a relationship based on other other aspects where sex is only a part of it ? Basically , you get rejected because of your one mind track about him : sex and he loses any respect has for you ?

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